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40 M Westminster, CO

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
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Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Who am I? Well, some people have told me I can be funny, sarcastic, curious, perceptive, inquisitive, patient, calm, quiet, stable, intelligent, independent, organized... and I'm usually pretty happy.

I'm an INFJ on the Myers-Briggs personality scale. It really fits my personality well. If you want to know what I'm like, google INFJ.

I'm not much of a daredevil or party-animal type. I prefer small gatherings and parties rather than big group outings. I like hiking, and boating, and being near water - rivers, lakes, the ocean (the last one is difficult in CO though). I'm also happy just being at home spending time together with a partner. I like cooking when I have people to cook for. I just started learning East Coast swing dancing and I love it - it would be nice to have a partner to practice with! Also enjoy skiing, playing tennis and golf, biking, playing card games and board games, and most other activities; I'm usually pretty open to trying out new things. I love dining out and going to bars and new restaurants. I also like just going for walks, watching movies, and simply having good conversation. Comedy clubs are fun, hot tubs are relaxing, and grilled food is delicious.

I like cats and have one myself. I've tried living with dogs and it didn't turn out well. I'm not much of a dog person.
I exercise a lot - about an hour a day, every day (I'll skip a day now and then). I eat pretty healthy. I usually only drink on weekends or special occasions.

Anything I'm forgetting? Just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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I earned a Ph.D. in social psychology, studying interpersonal relationships - why people get together, stay together, break up - stuff like that (yeah I know it's kind of weird to have a doctorate in relationships and be on a dating site... life is weird sometimes).

Right now I'm working as a statistician for a cooperative database company. Thrilling, right? But it's actually pretty interesting and I work with a really cool group of people so I like it there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of stuff, but you'll have to get to know me to find out what.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm not super tall... I'm 5'6" If you're looking for tall, dark, and handsome, you'll just have to settle for handsome.

I also have really blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot. I just finished reading "Dune." Currently reading "The Mismeasure of Man" and the Game of Thrones books. Other favorites: Fast Food Nation, 1984, Watership Down, The Fountainhead (I just like the story, not the politics/philosophy behind it), The DaVinci Code, A Wrinkle in Time, Drift, Bruce Catton's American Civil War series, stuff by R.A. Salvatore, Robert Heinlein, Kurt Vonnegut... I'm probably forgetting someone major.

I love movies, mainly (but not only): Sci Fi, comedy, documentaries, fantasy, dramas.
I don't watch much TV, sometimes I like to catch up on current events in the news. I like Game of Thrones and Real Time with Bill Maher, but I don't have cable so I can only catch them on random occasions. I have stuff in my Netflix queue but I don't get around to it often.

My music tastes change a lot. I rarely listen to rap or country though (except Johnny Cash, because who doesn't like Johnny Cash?)

I love to go to new restaurants and I'm usually open minded about what kind of cuisine. Italian, Mexican, and American are probably my favorites, but trying something I've never had before is fun. I don't eat out much though, and when I'm at home or work, I eat healthy stuff almost exclusively.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

I don't know if there's anything I could never do without, but here's some stuff I would really, really miss if they were gone (in no particular order):
1. Thunderstorms
2. Wine on the weekends
3. Sunglasses
4. The entire sci-fi, fantasy, history, and biography sections of a nearby bookstore
5. Imagination
6. Autumn
6. Halloween
6. Cats. Mine in particular but I like all cats
6. Campfires, or bonfires. Or fireplaces. Something burning.
6. Running shoes AND sandals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
History. And politics. And society and human nature. And my life. And the future. Anything I forgot? I think about a lot of things a lot of the time. I probably think too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Glad the work week is over.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't have children (vasectomy). I like kids and I'm happy to date someone who has kids though.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
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