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49 • London, UK • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 45–60
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 14
- 5′ 8″ (1.72m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Graduated from university
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
I am Clever, busy, and open (left over from the days when OKC asked you for three words).
I'm interested in relationships with long term potential. I identify as "single with lovers" at the moment. Or solo poly, if you prefer the jargon. You need to be comfortable with that at least in the short term, but if we get to the long term it might be up for negotiation for the right person. Certainly the single/solo bit.
Working, singing, charity committees, spending time with friends and lovers. Mostly working.
When I have more time I will: go to more concerts/plays/films/exhibitions; go for long country walks, travel Europe by train, spend more time with friends either doing the above or eating/drinking/talking in good restaurants/ wine bars.
Learning things very fast, and analysing them
Singing, not a soloist, but I do sing in a really good amateur choir and sightread well.
Food: not fussy, but given a choice: italian or thai. Good wine.
mental stimulation and worthwhile things to do
Better have a PC too, otherwise the broadband's not much use
Opportunities to sing
How to solve the latest work problem
What would make the world a better place
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