Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would suggest taking a look at the explanations to the answers
I've questioned (sic :D) to get a better idea of how I feel about
more specific topics.
But beyond that a real quick look at what I find important in
another person; Number one you need to be real. I know that may be
cliche and it might even sound a bit cynical but I tend to find
females are a bit, well, princess space cadety if you will. In that
I find females tend to think a bit (way) too much of themselves and
have really unrealistic expectations and also I find a lot of
females have an entitlement mentality. What I am trying to say is
just know what's really important in life and cherish, protect and
hold dear those things. Life tends to push us in directions that
might leave us a little cynical or a little too self involved so I
find keeping things in perspective is important.
I am an avid and sincere Buddhist. I am one quarter mexicano thanks
to my late grandma on mi padres side. Don't look like it though.
I'm learning spanish and german and can speak german pretty good,
spanish not so much.
That pretty much is it for a self-summary. One among many living
and working and playing and trying to find a place amongst the
chaos and uncertainty of life just like you and that other person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
On a day to day just working, playing and living really nothing
crazy just life. Unfortunately work seems to take up so much time,
there really are never enough hours in a day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't really care if I am 'good' at whatever it is or not. What
really matters is if I enjoy it. And I generally do.
It's interesting, I find as I get older it doesn't matter if you
are 'good' at what you do rather than just doing it and doing it
with verve as well as being able and willing to follow through with
something to the end.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know, perhaps that I'm am a little eccentric but good
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All these things and moments with them are transient. If I enjoy
something I just try to savor that moment. But generally I
thoroughly enjoy some relaxing R&B and Hip Hop. There is
nothing like relaxing with some friends over a glass of wine or a
beer to some soothing R&B. For some reason it almost feels more
adult of an music genre than others.
I'm into more artistically driven movies rather than the summer
blockbuster movie of the month.
I don't watch TV except for news, The Newsroom and the daily
show/colbert report. And NBA but that's not really 'TV'.
I like healthy foods, or at least I'm trying to. I've found that
the combination of dark red kidney beans, black beans and corn is
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In time all things will change and fade. The only thing I could not
live without is this moment and the experience with whatever is
there that it provides. Enjoy things and people as they are right
now, they will never be that way again. It is truly blissful as you
find yourself surprisingly stumble into a perfect moment.
But I will say this:
RHCP - Tool - Coldplay <-- Best 3 bands ever. Pac and Big, Boyz,
Brian, Joe et cetera for relaxing.
Best current rapper imo - Rick Ross, when he gets it right its the
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try to be here but often I find myself off in a place where pure
potentiality exists. I often go there to change things in the past
I would have done differently or to relive a beautiful moment. I
often go there to contemplate reality as our science allows us to
understand it too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Striving to make it untypical!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's interesting. I shouldn't even put this here because it's
counter productive to the intended goal of me having a page on this
web site but I'm going at this from a therapeutic point of view.
One in which you write a letter you might otherwise mail to a party
you have some unresolved issues with that due to circumstances
outside your control, death etc., you can't share your grievances
with said party. This is a letter to my issues I can't resolve. The
circumstances that gave rise to these 'issues' were outside my
control. I am and my issues are the result of pure random chance
that were subsequently amplified by a butterfly effect. I am
currently in a position that provides no value to myself in respect
to another person (potential mate). This is not pity, no boo
hooing, simply a fact. I find that fact impedes me even though I
don't feel like I require myself to have a set of minimum values
across those certain desirable, to the female, socioeconomic
parameters. Even so, knowing my aggregate socioeconomic value is so
low it excludes me from certain, and several, social interactions
demoralizes me and inhibits my desire for personal progression. I
have Asperger Syndrome which limits my socioeconomic functionality,
capacity, and growth. I am nearly physically incapable of
maintaining a normal job due to anxiety related stresses that arise
from my lack of any kind of social comfort or capacity. There are
other things impeding me from functioning similar to an NT
(neurotypical) such as thought processes that often produces a
negative self feeding loop with results similar to OCD. This
pertains to various items including food which has caused me to
gain a lot of weight and also caused me to form some very
unfortunate food related dependencies. I have been home bound for
about 5 years now. Going outside for longer than a few minutes
causes me to become overwhelmed. It pains me to be so honest with
myself. It is truly as though I am an alien visiting Earth in a
body that only resembles the native species. I am separate in both
processes of mind and actions taken by said mind as evidenced by my
wholly uniqueness and subsequent ostracization. I wouldn't change
how my mind works though. It provides me with unique and beautiful
perspectives of reality. It just doesn't tell me how to act or
present myself within a socially interdependent society. I wrote
this for myself, to myself and to who I could have been. I don't
ask for pity from anyone who might read this. I wrote this because
I needed to 'say' these things to someone, anyone, and as I have no
personal relationships this serves as a rudimentary surrogate.
You should message me if
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