I am genuine, introverted, and dreamy.
My Self-Summary
I've decided to update my profile, since OKCupid has proven to be
more useful than I'd initially thought. :)
I can never come up with a witty introduction, so I'll begin by
saying that my name is Kathrynn, and I live in Bozeman, Montana. I
don't really like living in Montana because the weather is so
intense (I hate the cold) but I appreciate Bozeman a lot for its
amenities. When you've spent three years in a steak and
potatoes-eating right-winged Catholic town, your expectations are
bound to become more realistic.
One of my favorite things about Bozeman is that I can actually find
cooking ingredients here. In Butte, I would be very fortunate to
find something like garam masala, but now I can find almost
anything! Even galangal root. :D As you have probably guessed by
now, cooking is one of my passions. No, FOOD is one of my passions.
Ever since I was very young creating 'pizzas' out of sandwich bread
cut into circles and ketchup-based tomato sauce, food was and
continues to be one of my greatest joys. People tend to like my
cooking and suggest that I look into culinary school, but as you
will quickly learn by speaking to me, I don't enjoy stressful,
fast-paced activities. I would much rather limit my culinary
adventures to my own space. Working with the public in general just
doesn't appeal to me. In fact, I would much prefer to stay at home
to cook and clean for whoever I'm with at the time.
I like to be completely honest with everyone, so I am going to
admit now that I am currently living with my boyfriend of five
years. However, he is completely aware and supportive of my
interest in women and my profile on OKCupid, so if this doesn't
bother you, please feel free to message me!
I should probably not mention this on here, but I am also a very
trusting person. If you can help it, try not to take advantage of
that. XD
I don't like big-headed people that claim to be 'hotter' or
'smarter' than anyone else. Humility is a trait that I personally
admire very much.
I'm very introverted and I don't tend to say a lot to people I
don't know; at least face-to-face. I have a bad habit of using the
internet as my crutch so that I can hide my poor social skills
behind well thought out text, so don't be surprised if I seem a
little different in person if I've been speaking to you for a while
online. It's simply a matter of insecurity, and the fact that I
really just don't get out much. I have spent a good deal of my life
sitting in front of a glowing screen, hence my inability to
interact with others like a normal human being. Most of my
activities are intended to be solo, due mostly to necessity. When
you were raised in a little mountain community, you have to teach
yourself to enjoy your own company.
What I’m doing with my life
What am I doing with my life? Right now I'm trying to become
financially stable so that I can work on my education. I dropped
out of high school at the age of fifteen when my parents and myself
realized that I wasn't going to get any work done due to my
depression, and it wasn't until three years ago or so that retail
work finally taught me the valuable lesson that you really should
stay in school. I have a hard time concentrating and staying
organized and focused in school due to my ADHD, but I think that I
have a lot more ambition now than I did when I was fifteen. I'm
hoping that once I get my GED and some college classes under my
belt, I will have the opportunity to look into going into the
graphic design industry.
Aside from all that, I am also looking for some new people around
Montana with similar interests to spend time with. ^_^
I’m really good at
I absolutely hate saying the phrase 'I'm good at' because it makes
me sound like a douchebag. XD I guess that instead of that I'll
just say that people have said that they think I am better than
average with cooking, writing, singing, drawing and complaining.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think that the first thing people notice about me is that I tend
to look fairly unhappy when I'm out and about, even when I'm not.
Because I don't have a lot of money, I don't usually wear anything
too unique or ostentatious (although I would very much like to) so
I don't really stick out in a crowd. Maybe someday, though. <3
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I wish I could list off a bunch of books that I've fallen in love
with, but the sad truth is that I simply cannot invest enough
attention and interest in a book to be able to read through the
whole thing. I've tried to read a dozen books during my lifetime in
my own spare time, but I just can't seem to focus long enough to be
able to comprehend the material. Maybe I will be able to someday
when I can afford medication, but for now it's strictly video games
for me. Even movies are difficult for me to pay attention to.
Some movies I have managed to sit through, however, are Brokeback
Mountain, Washington Square, Songcatcher, several Miyazaki films
and Grave of the Fireflies. I seem to be more able to focus when
the movie is animated (lawl) If you recognize any of these titles,
you have probably been able to deduce that my favorite movie genres
include Period, Anime and Romance. I also love Horror movies, but I
can never seem to find ANYONE who is willing to go see them with
me. Am I the only one out there who likes them?
As for music, I love just about anything. I even listen to Yodeling
once in a while! However, I do not enjoy Metal, Rap, Punk, Hard
Rock or any other music that is negative or gives me headaches.
Some of my favorite genres are Techno/Rave, Classical, New Age,
Country, Opera, Video Game Soundtracks and World. Music is one of
those things that really affects my mood, which is why I don't like
negative-sounding genres.
And food? Ah, glorious food. I could write about it for ages if
allowed. But I'll spare you the details and simply say that I love
nearly anything that would be considered extravagant (though this
is true of most things) Despite my low income I am more than happy
to fork over ten dollars for a piece of produce, if it's an
important ingredient in what I'm making. In my own opinion, life is
too short to settle for cheap food. I was raised on venison
hamburger helper and canned peas, so I think that's probably what
inspired my dislike for most inexpensive foods. Granted, I am not
going to lie and say that I never prepare budget-friendly meals.
It's just that when I do have a little extra money, I am probably
going to be spending it on exotic ingredients rather than a new
pair of shoes. ;)
If you like sushi, I would love to get together sometime! Seems I
can't find anyone in town who likes it.
The six things I could never do without
Romance, art, good food, darkness, video games and fruit juice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about history, both my own and the world's. It seems
that I focus on it more than I do the present or the future, and I
sometimes long for it, even though my childhood was riddled with
disappointment and emotional suffering. I also think about my close
internet friends, and how I wish I could see them. I think about
new recipes I might have come across, or pieces of artwork that
have inspired me. I think about how hard things currently are, but
I never seem to think about how they could be improved. Lately,
though, I think a lot about what I want out of life, and how I wish
I had someone kind and interesting to share myself with (aside from
my boyfriend, of course).
On a typical Friday night I am
Alone. ._.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I love butch women. <3
You should message me if
You are female (the older the better), and live nearby. XD I
suppose there should be more qualifying factors than that, but I'm
really only looking for females in or around Bozeman. If you are
male, you are free to message me for a chat, but don't expect
anything more to come from the friendship.
Honestly, though, I would really love to meet someone who is
friendly, worldly, intelligent (though not obnoxiously so) and
open-minded. I would like us to have similar interests, but it
isn't always necessary. Just keep in mind that I don't do sports or
most outdoor activities. Period. XD
Well, I think that's it. I hope I haven't scared you off! If you're
interested in chatting sometime, don't hesitate to message me. :)