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36 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Howdy there. I'm fairly easy-going, shy at first, but can become more chatty. I write classical music, play video games, have some geeky tendencies, and am a big nerd. I'm a really kind person, though with a contrary streak.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for a non-profit, doing statistics for clinical trials of contraception and preclinical experiments for microbicides. While I have some professional goals, they don't define me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Math, listening, cuddling, patience, music composition

Debunking anti-vaccination "studies" and other types of junk science. Giving suburban moms the internet and a tiny bit of scientific confidence is like translating the Bible into the vernacular - we don't realize the monsters we've created.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If during the winter, my beard. Otherwise, I'm not really sure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love classical music, and some opera. For pop music, I am quite eclectic. I enjoy computer games, mostly RPGs. For TV and movies, my tastes have gone a bit quirky, so that I typically do not enjoy blockbusters or sitcoms (think Joss Whedon not Aaron Sorkin). For books, I alternate something fantastical with comedy. Love Tolkien :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, computer, phone, plumbing, friends, bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Environment. Science. Philosophy. Music. Math.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I head right home after work, I tend to get stuck there. However, I can just as easily go to happy hour and stay out all night. With a bf, I tend to be more homebodyish than when single.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I'm willing to admit it, then it's not very private, is it? ;)
You should message me if
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You think I'm cute and want to have sex or a date. Potential for more is great, but not required - well maybe for the date it is.

If you do not mind a guy who is interested in you s/texting you, just because.

If you are open to something serious, but not forced.

For a guy to have long-term potential, having a steady job is a huge positive. Knowing when to come home from one is even more. I highly value openness, and I don't like having to guess what's on your mind or what your goals are.