I know that last statement makes me sound bitter, but I promise I'm not. I live, I learn, and I grow from my mistakes; they make me who I am!
And I'm me. I'm certainly not average, but I pray to God I'm not weird either. I'm not always up on the latest episode of The Game, or whatever the hot show is now, but the things that matter to me are building relationships with people who appreciate a variety of things, and who aren't one-track minded. (Not to say that if you watch The Game that you're beneath me or that you're shallow lol I don't believe I'm above anyone. The show is actually quite entertaining; I just don't watch it much because...well, I don't know. It depends on what kind of mood I'm in!)
I love spending time with people who are genuine, and who love to laugh and have fun doing even the simplest things. A man who smiles a lot, and who is respectful and has a positive outlook on life, is very attractive to me. I also really love it when a man knows how to treat the woman he’s dating, with respect and in the way he'd want his mother or sisters to be treated. ...Guys, it's really not hard to keep us happy. Or maybe I should speak for myself and say that it’s not that hard to keep ME happy. I'm generally a happy person already, so as long as I can count on my man to be there when I need him, I will stay happy. Don't insult my intelligence or play with my emotions by starting out as the Prince Charming who stays in constant contact to get me, but then falls off the face of the earth once he feels I'm his. In no woman's world is that ever ok, so don't do it, fellas. Respect people, that's all it boils down to. Respect the woman in your life, treat her like gem she is, and she will be there for you, ride or die! :-)