Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ive been doing some self discovery recently. Ive come to realise
that kink is a big thing in my life. Ideally I would like to
combine the two types of relationships. But whatever comes about,
the bdsm element is important to me and whether that is with you or
not, I fully intend to continue my journey through kink. However I
do not entertain wannabe Doms. I am lucky enough to have a great
group of friends at my back who are experienced in the scene and
will look out for me and help me steer clear of the wrong types. So
if you're caring, intelligent, experienced.. (oh and taller than
me!) give me a shout!
anyway, on with the rest of my profile....
(Am I the only one who gets annoyed when you're in the middle of
chatting to somebody on IM or another messenger and that person
just logs out without saying they are going? That really-...
Hi, I'm katy :)
I can be initially pretty shy with people I dont know (but not
always - it depends on the person). however, once I really get to
know and trust people I let my true personality show. I suppose you
could say I have many layers (like shrek, and onions!). only the
people closest to me get to experience the innermost workings of my
personality. And you'll be surprised by what you find in there - I
assure you ;)
I'm keen on meeting new people and making new friends. I'm quite
sociable, although I tend to be pretty quiet in large groups
because I normally can't get a word in edgeways!
I like to think of myself as being a good listener and very caring,
kind and generous. I am also honest and open minded, but not
particularly good at taking hints and can be blunt as a baseball
NOTE: I can come across as pretty confident online (and I've been
told I have a wonderfully dirty mind). however when meeting people
in person for the first time I can be very shy (as i mentioned
before) when talking about very personal things until i'm
comfortable with the person. some people do have the right
personality to bring me out of my shell pretty quickly though.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working in material science whilst studying
engineering through the open uni.
I am horseriding
once a fortnight, which
I love! I couldn't live without horses
in my world. If you dont like them
I'm not for you.
I'm a scout
for a local group. I recently changed groups when i
I take part in an adult ballet
class after work. I'm not great at
it (picture dancing hippos in Disney's Fantasia and you get the
idea) but it's good fun and a bit of exercise. I've started to
occasionally go jive
dancing again too.
I've recently joined a local slimming world group and have almost
lost 5 stone so far over the last year and 5 months... plenty more
to go, wish me luck :)
I've recently had to stop driving for a year for medical reasons so
have started cycling to work. While it's only just over 2 miles
each way it's certainly starting to help the weight loss! Not so
nice when it's cold, rainy or snowy though...
I like playing online computer games with friends such as
left4dead2, Orcs Must Die and Borderlands. I've just got a copy of
DOTA2 now so re-learning how to play that again too.
I also hang out with my friends as much as possible (when they're
free!) as that's when I'm happiest!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
(when it's with a guy who know's what he's doing!) and
pics of mainly animals and women. To see my pics go to
I'd like to think i was good at singing
, but that's mainly when i'm
alone in my car listening to a CD! :) I certainly enjoy it
I'm excellent at:
- winding myself up and then..
- putting myself down
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
- How tall I am.
- My hair - that was black but is now a mix of black and
- Cool red and black glasses with red zig-zags on the sides
- My smile?
I think people tend to misjudge me. Those who don't know me too
well see me as quiet and possibly a bit boring, but once they get
to know me they realise there's a WHOLE different side.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently obsessed with vampire everything...
books: Wheel of
series by Robert Jordan. read the twillight
series, the Anita Blake Vampire
series, reading the Vampire Diaries
books at the
same time as the Trueblood
books! :) Also like
movies: fantasy, sci-fi, animated. Definately Starwars
, The Crow
music: all sorts: classical, rock'n'roll, pop, depressing, all
sorts! even a fan of Basshunter
(especially the sweedish
, Within Temptation
food: all stuff that is bad for you! Also: raw carrot
sticks, peanut butter
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
purse, phone, keys, scrunchie, friends, chocolate, horses, leather
oh, sorry, is that more than 6?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
, or when I'm
next going riding
What i'm gonna do this evening,
What's for dinner tonight,
Vampires and how cool it would be to live in a world containing
Why there's not many girls on here,
What sex with a woman would be like and other kinky
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chilling out with a dvd and takeaway,
hanging out with friends,
surfing the net,
shooting zombies online
wondering when i'm next going horse riding,
running kinky fantasies through my head..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
not many people know I'm interested in BDSM
. I'm submissive but if you want to
know more details than that then you'll have to ask me once I trust
you and your motivations!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... You are:
-Kinky/dominant (deal breaker!)
-Share some of my interests
-Spontaneous but also able to make plans
-Able to hold conversations that are not about sex!
-Can drive (I cant at the moment - silly epilepsy - until november.
only 1 month left, wheee!)
Oh yes, I prefer chatting on IM, however I dont always notice
messages sent on it untill it's too late. so If I've not replied
I've probbably got my browser on a different tab rather than
ignoring you. I can be a bit rubbish at replying to inbox messages
if I've read it on my phone and think "oh I'll answer that later
using my pc". So dont be offended if I forget to reply and feel
free to send me a reminder. I'll get round to it eventually.
Btw, it's a bit dull if all i get is a wink or "hi"... please try
to be creative! its just sooooo boring otherwise :)
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