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Kathyg825

54 / F / Straight / Single

Bothell, Washington

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 1:21pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm very fit and energetic, stable and sexy, intelligent and a young-54 (actually feel at least 10 years younger), down to earth and a widowed parent for 9 years.

I'm looking for a man who knows how to treat a woman nicely! Preferably a parent too, someone who can be friends before jumping in. If we do end up connecting, I see us exclusively sharing a wide range of activities, from dining out to hikes, and ultimately building a rewarding life together.

I love living in Seattle, having grown up in the Midwest! Such a fantastic variety of things to do, from city life to outdoors. Many incredible hikes and places for weekend getaways (tho haven't done that in ages); it's a fabulous life in the Pacific Northwest!
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my teen as a widowed parent, creating a stable home: gym daily (love Zumba/dance), working as a PT pre-school teacher, reading, volunteering, hiking, and taking care of my home filled with too many animals!
I’m really good at
Laughing! No seriously, being nice and friendly. Working hard, being loyal and kind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading a variety of fiction and some non-fiction too; over 150 books a year, the library is a great deal!

Enjoy movies, not so recently Avatar, the last HP7 was outstanding...
Like theatre but don't get the opportunity as much as I'd like.

Don't watch much TV, a bit of Bill Maher with my teen. The few TV shows I do like, I rent on Netflix.

Like live music, tho haven't been forever it seems. Favorites range from coldplay to moody blues, grateful dead to john mayer....

Like all types of healthy eating and ethnic foods, esp thai, indian, sushi and seafood. Enjoy dining out but also love a good home cooked healthy meal.
The six things I could never do without
Hmmm, since I've actually survived the death of my hubby at a young age for both of us, I'll write everything (excluding the 1st) with a grain of salt:

1. My teen: who is actually enjoyable and pleasant to be with! That bird flies in 3 years; yet I could never do without the love and joy.

2. The outdoors: which includes mountains, lakes, and my back yard which I've nurtured for over 23 years.

3. Friends: I've a small long time circle scattered around the West, alas none live nearby.

4. The gym: I do live for my weekday work outs! I love Zumba, but find the whole AM routine key to my well-being.

5. Books! I am always reading something, learning doesn't just happen in a classroom, for me it's through a variety of novels.

6. My home: it's my oasis and central to me after 23 years. I can even see the mountains from the corner of 2 rooms!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The earth, how to help others, living within a budget, making the most out of life, being grateful for being healthy....
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking a special TGIF dinner with a glass of red wine as a treat. Then walking the dog (no he walks me!) for extra long and even taking in Mt Rainier on some days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not until we're friends and know each other better.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 50–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You know how to treat a woman nicely, want a LTR yet willing to be friends first.
You are very fit and healthy, honest and kind, intelligent and stable, and live near Kirkland.