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26 F Anaheim, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:27am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
With no real certainty on how to begin this, I'll begin here. I'm a big fan of ongoing education and exploration. This covers a lot of bases from what I study, to what I eat, and where I go. I guess there's just too much in this world and it's all so exciting, how could I ever say I was done?

This seems to be a thing on these sorts of sites, but if you care to know, my online Myers Briggs personality test comes back INFJ, which lines me up with Hitler, Mother Teresa, Nelson Mandela, Ghandi, Carrie Fisher, & Billy Crystal. So it kind of balances out...I mean, almost...I hope.

I find I personify the Simon Pegg definition of a geek: "Being a geek is all about being honest about what you enjoy and not being afraid to demonstrate that affection. It means never having to play it cool about how much you like something. It’s basically a license to proudly emote on a somewhat childish level rather than behave like a supposed adult. Being a geek is extremely liberating.”

To that end, I enjoy so many, many things. I love light, comics, running, theatre, obstacle courses, sci-fi, poetry, baking, and cartoons. I did a lot of improv from age 12 until I graduated college and some in grad school so it's safe to say that I'm one for banter and a good giggle. I like someone who can get on the same page with me and keep the bit rolling.

In terms of what I'm looking for, I love a sense of humor above all. I'd like to meet someone kind, funny, driven, comfortable in their own skin, and energetic enough to keep up. I want to meet someone who makes me feel like I'm a kid going outside to play when I go to meet them. I believe life is a big game of Calvinball. You in?
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a lighter. I design the lights for dance, theatre, opera, and mostly events. I sometimes find I can't choose a favorite. The hours are long and weird but I dig it. Between work and studying VFX online, I keep a pretty packed schedule but I love the path I've chosen.

I'd also quite like to be a superhero should the need arise, so I'm trying to improve my physical condition with distance running and ridiculous obstacle courses.
This is my latest passion:


I love charmingly failing at any and all sports. Anything to get the heart pumping that is just a little bit out of the ordinary is my jam.

Above all, I just want to be a source of good in the world.
I’m really good at
Retaining information that I will never, ever need.
Picking out Christmas presents.
Flower arranging. I use a mallet.
Obscure references to classic British comedy.
Baking the basics but making them taste beyond the ordinary.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my eyes. Definitely my height. I refuse to not wear heels when I'm going out, just because it makes me 6'1"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Song of Ice and Fire, anything by Terry Pratchett, World War Z. I find I read a lot of books that I grab at the airport, but only once and then pack them with me whenever I move. I'm a sucker for a well-written poem as well.
I used to read voraciously but it's fallen by the wayside a bit. I have a pile of books on my nightstand and it's a personal resolution to take more time to enjoy a book with a cup of tea or a glass of lemonade, and then who shall say I am not the happy genius of my household?

Movies: Pixar, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, anything Monty Python (memorized), anything Mel Brooks, anything Marvel, anything Batman, Indiana Jones, Star Wars, the Rocketeer, Serenity, Watchmen, Lord of the Rings, Miyazaki, Princess Bride, Zombieland. The list continues! I'm really excited about just about any movie. I even like the not so good ones, provided they're rifftrax...'ed?

TV: Doctor Who, Firefly, Parks and Rec, Community, Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Scrubs, Monty Python, Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip, Batman: The Animated Series...again, I really love the medium.

(Are you tired of lists yet?)
Foo Fighters, Mumford and Sons, Florence and the Machine, Flight of the Conchords, Flogging Molly, Imagine Dragons, Proclaimers, The Who, The Lumineers, Electric Light Orchestra...they're my jam.
The six things I could never do without
I could do without a lot of things, I suppose. I'm fairly lucky.
I really like my family. I'm very invested in my friends and my health. Toothpaste is a big 'un.

I could never do without something to do, which sounds very Dr. Seuss but I'm really just fidgety.

I guess that's only five...let's just add pineapple for good measure. If I were stranded on a desert island, I would quite like a pineapple bush. And for that island to be Kauai, if I get to pick two things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to get a career that will one day completely win my child's career day. You didn't know you could win at career day, did you? Well, you can and I will.


How to have a life around work.

Where I haven't been yet and how to get there.

Paying off student loans. So far, so good!
On a typical Friday night I am
Like seemingly everyone I'm a fan of drinking and watching movies or more eloquently phrased: On Friday nights, I'm a big fan of wine, Netflix, and unwinding. I also like the Oxford comma. If you're still with me on that one, well done!

Not opposed to going out either, there's just so many people out there and I genuinely dislike clubs. My interest in other people is directly proportional to how much I can hear them. If I can't hear you, how can we talk? I only know a few words of sign language and I can't keep saying "I'm sorry. I don't know. My turtle pooped?" It will get old.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 25–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
**you liked my profile and I liked yours back. Your turn again!**
-you like making people smile.
-you're up for talking nerdy.
-you commit to the bit.
-you feel like you need to occasionally be Batman.
-you're down with going wine tasting with me and treating me like a lady and then watching UFC at a bar with me so I can yell at a TV.
-your idea of a romantic night spot and an impenetrable fortress are the same thing.

-you like doing things on dates. That sounds obvious but I'm much more comfortable walking around, cooking, or enjoying some activity other than sitting and watching each other eat.