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31 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Two weeks new to the Bay Area. Drove through the mountains, down into the valley, and accelerated on the scenic byways to start a new life. Should probably try to work a man into it. Maybe after I get off my friend's aerobed in the living room, or before if you want to help me move.

I am a fiercely independent woman looking for a dependable man. If you understand this, go past go and message me. Seriously.

If you're looking for your foul-mouthed bar maid who can turn the charm on in front of your grandmother and the pope, you've come to the right profile.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just picked it up and drove 2,000 miles until I hit the coast line due to a pretty sweet job offer and the fact that I was becoming too contentedly complacent. For now, I'm gonna take it day by day. But as my g'ma commented, I don't let the grass grow under my feet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being on a bike - stationary or otherwise. Others: Being a die hard Fighting Sioux Hockey fan (probably doesn't make much sense to the Bay Area), mixing a mean cocktail that tastes delicious, sprucing up resumes, planning vacations, wrapping well thought out gifts. Oh, and grammar, I'm really good at grammar.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A colleague once called me a "doll" and another one got more specific by calling out "Bride of Chucky." So, I'm gonna go with chameleon. But sincere in all actions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I'm slowly adopting the Kindle approach. It's been liberating but I miss the feel and smell of a good paperback.

Movies: Big Lebowski, Dazed & Confused, Grumpy Old Men and Grumpier Old Men, Fargo, Juno, Office Space, Slapshot, Super Troopers, Toy Story series, Wizard of Oz. No lies, they are all in my movie collection.

Shows: My heart broke when House finished its last season. It was almost as bad as the Gilmore Girls heartbreak.

The ones I've been lucky enough to see in person (to name a few): 4onthefloor (x^4), AC/DC, Aerosmith (3x), B.B. King, Beyonce (x2), Black Keys, Bruno Mars, Eric Clapton, Ellie Goulding (x2), Foster the People, Flogging Molly, fun, G. Love (3x), Jack Johnson, Jay-Z, Lumineers, Ke$ha, Killers, Mumford & Sons, O.A.R., Neil Young, Pink Floyd (what's left of 'em), Prince, Ryan Bingham, Sam Smith, Vampire Weekend, Weezer (4x) - as you can see, tastefully all over the billboard charts.

Food: The spicier the better - Thai is my favorite. I've rooster sauce in my desk at work.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Burt's Bees chapstick
2. Passport
3. My Sigg bottle
4. Music blaring or speaking softly to me
5. A book (or Kindle) that I just can't put down
6. My king size bed

I sleep with 5 of the 6 near me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm going to get my dream job overseas (landed it in San Francisco for now), my next big travel adventure, where I parked my car. Where my soul mate is who will support me in my career aspirations, be my travel buddy, and remind me where I parked that damn car.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is where I need your help. I need to find my new typical. Previous it was Laundry. Cabin. Watching Sioux hockey live or in person. FamDamily.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I often times wonder if I'm in over my head, but my ego doesn't know that so please don't tell it to my face.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Here's the thing. I've this shy thing happening when it comes to fellas. So if we're a mutual match, then I'm interested. But because I'm a dork, I don't have the nerve to message you unless I came up with a really good quip or intro. Sometimes I have but my palms are too sweaty and my iPhone drops, once again rendering my smooth moves...well not smooth. Anyway, just do it, will you?