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25 • Bristol, UK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–35
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Jan 26
- 6′ 0″ (1.84m)
- Body Type
- Strictly anything
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of masters program
- Less than $20,000
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
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Getting in to complicated discussions about controversial shit, keeping an open mind and pushing ideas and peoples preconceptions. It's the mark of an educated mind as they say.
Roleplaying and skyping with friends from all over the place.
Show: Doctor who
I know that at least half the messages you get on this site are creepy and weird and most of the rest are boring and or messages of "hey babe want to chat?" And I'd be frustrated and rather despondent with that happened to me.
BUT (sure the creeps are creeps, but in regards to the rest of us)
Would you come up with a thoughtful detailed complex expression of interest that you've carefully tailored to not be too personal but personal enough. When it takes quite a long time to write such a message and when 80% of the time you won't even get a response?
No you'd say
"Hi there! I like what you said about x on your profile, want to chat?"
And let them read your profile, and assume its a given you're interested otherwise you wouldn't be messaging in the first place.
And sure if I was clever and or manipulative I wouldn't write any of this, who wants to hear this kind of thing. I'd put up picture of me sky diving or something, i'd look up a guide for what to write in my profile, and I'd send the same carefully tailored message to everyone. But fuck that.
The point in online dating is we can be picky. And you can learn more about how I think from reading everything I just said than from some tailored profile. You can decide early if you want to engage with a person who thinks like I do. Sure there's a lot more to me that this intellectual deconstruction of the mechanics of ok cupid and how we seem to use it. But you'll find that out from talking to me.
And I'm telling you all this because I want you to be picky. I want someone who appreciates my way of thought. I don't just want to up some percentage of people who message me back. What would be the point. Unless you are the type of person who could talk to me in this kind of way at least occasionally it wouldn't work out in the long run, life is short let's save some years.
TLDR: Ok cupid is weird but who cares Start messaging people this is a two way thing!
I talk a lot it seems! Message me if you like deep rambling conversations.
Be picky! That's the advantage of online dating, not throwing pasta at a wall and seeing if it sticks.
You love thinking about and observing the world as much as I do.
You want to share that mind and those thoughts with me.
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