I'm married and polyamorous, which means we openly date other people. I'm bisexual (and a bisexual activist). I'm a parent and work as part-time project officer in the public sector, but I'm also an aspiring writer when I have time/energy/ideas. I haven't decided yet what I'm doing on OKCupid, but probably just looking for interesting people in general. And apparently I start all my sentences with 'I' - sorry.

Things that are good: spending hours having interesting conversations; having food cooked for me; watching films with people; exploring London; exploring outside London; dancing.

I love living in London, but I grew up in Cornwall and need fairly regular trips to the countryside/seaside in order to feel properly grounded.

You know what I'd really like to do with OKCupid? Meet a few cool people and arrange a group drink in London sometime. Get in touch if you fancy the idea. Much less stressful than one-on-one drinks!

Organising bi events, holding parties, trying to write, bringing up my daughter.

Organising parties, or so people tell me - planning things generally. Editing. Introducing people to each other. I'm quite a good listener, less good at talking till I know people. I'm good at being enthusiastic but sometimes bad at following through.

I'm great at finding interestingly insane websites. It's not much of a skill, but it amuses my friends.

I'm short and curvy, friendly in a shy kind of way, often wearing bright colours (and often not, but it's something people tend to associate with me). I talk too fast when I'm nervous or excited. People have used the term 'bouncy', but that's only true some of the time.

Books/authors: Salman Rushdie, DH Lawrence, Scott Fitzgerald, Angela Carter, Kingsley Amis, Evelyn Waugh, Agatha Christie, Dorothy L Sayers, Robertson Davies, Jane Austen, Joe Orton, Isabel Allende. Lots more.

Movies: mainly musicals, especially 1930s b&w musicals. Also like Tarantino and David Lynch. I made a Top 50 list the other day but it's a bit long to post here. I watch a lot of films but I tend to watch some of the same ones over and over. Most recent cinema trip was to see Inglourious Basterds, which I loved.

Music: Leonard Cohen, early David Bowie (bit of a lifelong obsession), Hayseed Dixie, Violent Femmes, Barnaked Ladies, Tori Amos, Eurythmics, Pet Shop Boys, Eminem, the Supremes, Peter, Paul and Mary, Bob Dylan. Also some very easy listening stuff that probably falls into the 'embarrassing' category.

Food: potatoes and eggs in almost all their forms. Steak. Chocolate, cake, crisps. Royal Gala apples, most fruit. Milk. Halloumi, couscous, egg fried rice, lemon chicken, duck pancakes, God I'm hungry now.

Books, chocolate, the internet, physical contact, warmth, musicals.

Parties I'm going to organise, the future in general, books I want to write, my friends' lives, atheism, food, my daughter, strange mad websites, musicals.

In the pub, at the theatre/cinema, round someone's house, or at home on the internet/watching a DVD with S.

you want to. I don't know yet how likely I am to reply as I've only just joined - I suspect I'm more likely to reply to women, but I'm open to starting a conversation with anyone interesting. Always keen to meet more bisexual or bi-friendly Londoners. Not a huge fan of textspeak.