Well, Im a focused, passionate, and goal-oriented person who knows
what I want in life and has a fairly decent idea on how to get it.
I'm a huge nerd, there is no denying that. I spend most of my free
time reading, writing, thinking, or interacting with something that
is sciencey. Yet I feel like I am losing my mind when I can't run
or exercise, and go to great lengths to stay in shape and eat
right. There aren't many extremely athletic nerds around, but I
consider myself among them.
I also deeply enjoy meditating and contemplating, and I value the
time I spend alone in silence a great deal. I am someone who can
straddle the threshold between introversion and extroversion,
depending on the situation. I strive towards a level of personal
virtue that doesn't necessarily conform to a single religious
tradition, and I do consider myself deeply spiritual. But
spirituality is a deeply personal to me and I rarely speak of these
things with others, if they dont ask.
I consider myself a pretty well-rounded person. I can spend time
inside or outside, in a book, in the world, or in thought. I'm very
independent. I am completely self-sufficient and take a great deal
of pride in that fact, as everything I own was earned at my own
hands. I'm a pretty good cook and am one of the few college
students who is not only able to eat well, but I enjoy it too. And
although I am very much an adult person with adult dreams, I am
still a kid at heart and try not to take myself too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a college graduate with a B.S. in psychology. I hope to one
day be a clinical psychologist and am working currently working
towards building the skills necessary to enter a a doctoral degree
in clinical psychology.
I also aspire to be an author, as I am deeply passionate about
writing fiction. I hope to one day publish the story I have been
working on for a very long time, which I envision as being a
trilogy. My fiction writing is primarily in a fantasy setting.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
My luscious head of hair. When it's longer, most people refer to it
as a lion's mane. And I am perfectly alright with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I spend the majority of my free time reading (Studying and
recreation!). My very favorite book series is A Song of Ice and
Fire by George R.R. Martin, more well known as A Game of Thrones. I
also love Steven Erickson's Malazan tales of the Fallen, Michael
Sullivan's Riyria Chronicles, and Pat Rothfuss' Name of the
I read a ton of non-fiction as well. Most of which pertains to my
field, psychology. The rest includes various writings on science
and eastern religions (Buddhism, Hinduism, etc.). I own over 350
books and almost every single one of them pertains to these
The six things I could never do without
Food (Not just for survival, I love to eat!)
On a typical Friday night I am
drowning my sorrows in a 6-pack of Shasta and some You've Got Mail.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On a website? Nothing.
You should message me if
Your passionate about some of things I am! Or, if you think that
your something special and you saw my profile, you think I'm
amazing, intelligent, creative, sexy, etc. and you think you are
well worth getting to know =). I am interested in passionate,
driven, and independent women who know what they want in life. A
woman who is strong enough to know that she can be gentle. Someone
who is self-assured but lets her actions, character, and
accomplishments speak for themselves.
However, I think its necessary to add a subsection here called "You
shouldnt message me if....". You should not message me if you are
incredibly fickle or enjoy games. You should not message me if you
are not sure of yourself or what you are looking for. If you could
be or have been described as god-fearing, emotionally unstable,
indecisive, or immature I am not interested in wasting my time or