29 Minneapolis, MN
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My self-summary
Well, Im a focused, passionate, and goal-oriented person who knows what I want in life and has a fairly decent idea on how to get it. I'm a huge nerd, there is no denying that. I spend most of my free time reading, writing, thinking, or interacting with something that is sciencey. Yet I feel like I am losing my mind when I can't run or exercise, and go to great lengths to stay in shape and eat right. There aren't many extremely athletic nerds around, but I consider myself among them.

I also deeply enjoy meditating and contemplating, and I value the time I spend alone in silence a great deal. I am someone who can straddle the threshold between introversion and extroversion, depending on the situation. I strive towards a level of personal virtue that doesn't necessarily conform to a single religious tradition, and I do consider myself deeply spiritual. But spirituality is a deeply personal to me and I rarely speak of these things with others, if they dont ask.

I consider myself a pretty well-rounded person. I can spend time inside or outside, in a book, in the world, or in thought. I'm very independent. I am completely self-sufficient and take a great deal of pride in that fact, as everything I own was earned at my own hands. I'm a pretty good cook and am one of the few college students who is not only able to eat well, but I enjoy it too. And although I am very much an adult person with adult dreams, I am still a kid at heart and try not to take myself too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a college graduate with a B.S. in psychology. I hope to one day be a clinical psychologist and am working currently working towards building the skills necessary to enter a a doctoral degree in clinical psychology.

I also aspire to be an author, as I am deeply passionate about writing fiction. I hope to one day publish the story I have been working on for a very long time, which I envision as being a trilogy. My fiction writing is primarily in a fantasy setting.
I’m really good at
being sarcastic?
The first things people usually notice about me
My luscious head of hair. When it's longer, most people refer to it as a lion's mane. And I am perfectly alright with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I spend the majority of my free time reading (Studying and recreation!). My very favorite book series is A Song of Ice and Fire by George R.R. Martin, more well known as A Game of Thrones. I also love Steven Erickson's Malazan tales of the Fallen, Michael Sullivan's Riyria Chronicles, and Pat Rothfuss' Name of the Wind.

I read a ton of non-fiction as well. Most of which pertains to my field, psychology. The rest includes various writings on science and eastern religions (Buddhism, Hinduism, etc.). I own over 350 books and almost every single one of them pertains to these subjects.
The six things I could never do without
Food (Not just for survival, I love to eat!)
Being active
On a typical Friday night I am
drowning my sorrows in a 6-pack of Shasta and some You've Got Mail.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On a website? Nothing.
You should message me if
Your passionate about some of things I am! Or, if you think that your something special and you saw my profile, you think I'm amazing, intelligent, creative, sexy, etc. and you think you are well worth getting to know =). I am interested in passionate, driven, and independent women who know what they want in life. A woman who is strong enough to know that she can be gentle. Someone who is self-assured but lets her actions, character, and accomplishments speak for themselves.

However, I think its necessary to add a subsection here called "You shouldnt message me if....". You should not message me if you are incredibly fickle or enjoy games. You should not message me if you are not sure of yourself or what you are looking for. If you could be or have been described as god-fearing, emotionally unstable, indecisive, or immature I am not interested in wasting my time or yours.