54 San Diego, CA
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My self-summary
I have a great life. A great guy would be the cherry on top. I am 54. Looking for age range 45-59. Let's have some life experience in common. Intelligence required- that might offend some, but the right guy will get it. 99.9% of guys on here are not even close to what I'm looking for.

Not here for hookups. < read previous 3x.

A little annoyed with online dating, in fact, I'm pretty much over it. Haven't met anyone in almost a year. Not desperate to find someone. Have been burned a few times, and I like my space. Bluntly, it will take an extraordinary person to get my attention... Not likely online. It's hard to find attraction with people who have not taken care of themselves and the trend of older guys to look like schnauzers with facial hair. Sorry, but it's just not very attractive. And yet it's the majority in the older age bracket. As first impressions are the decider of whether or not we have a first meeting, it's not very helpful. So that immediately cuts out a huge swath of the population on this site. And I have accepted I may just end up being alone the rest of my life because it's too hard to find a match worthy of the comprises required. I accept this.

I may as well put this out there: I have published a book about my psychic experiences and dreams. I am not airy fairy, but if you aren't open to some spiritual stuff there's really no point. There must be some acceptance of life after death and psychic phenomena. This does not currently dominate my life, but it is a core element to the essence of my being. I am looking for someone on a similar level.
What I’m doing with my life
Doing portraits and I just published my first book.
I’m really good at
Being a good friend, art. I am also usually very clear on what my needs are and express them with good humor and kindness. Great at putting others first.

I have a deep concern for conservation. I am pained by lack of care for wildlife and the condition of the planet. I am anti hunting/ game fishing. I am looking for someone with similar respect. My wildlife shoots involve cameras only.
The first things people usually notice about me
My dazzling smile! And my green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Like healthy foods, comedies, concerts. Current pop to classic rock and some electronica- my son is an electronic music composer- so I'm very supportive of him with that. Basically anything that makes you feel alive. Fan of Richard Bach, Eckhart Tolle, and a variety of personal growth, spiritual growth.
The six things I could never do without
My kids, humor, toothbrush, the ocean, sunsets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Personal growth, and marketing my art.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually at home, but random outings do happen. Networking events, workshops.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am actually 54
You should message me if
You are cute, VERY intelligent, educated, healthy lifestyle, , and are very charming. PLUS- a big animal lover. Pets, wildlife, you love it all. You are NOT a hunter. AND last but not least- You LIVE in San Diego. No long distance time wasters please.