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49 San Diego, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 44–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:37pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I have a great life. A great guy would be the cherry on top. I am 53.

Looking for a real connection. NOT looking for hookup! NOT jumping into bed with anyone any time soon either. Looking for respect and something REAL. NOT your cheap entertainment. Capiche?.

A little annoyed with online dating, but I don't have much baggage at all. Well adjusted, happy and glass more than half full kind of person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have some very interesting things in my life that I will tell you about if we have mutual interest.

And I am in the process of founding a small non profit public art project to benefit marine life. Not bragging- just trying to make a small ripple against some very bad things happening in the world. Looking for a like minded partner, who at least respects this.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend, listening, having mature objective opinions, art. I am also usually very clear on what my needs are and express them with good humor and kindness, I'm good at being fair. I'm good at making people feel good about themselves. Great at putting others first.

I have a deep concern for conservation. I am pained by lack of care for wildlife and the condition of the planet. I am anti hunting/ game fishing. I am looking for someone with similar respect. My wildlife shoots involve cameras only.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dazzling smile! And my green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Like healthy foods, comedies, concerts. Current pop to classic rock and some electronica- my son is an electronic music composer- so I'm very supportive of him with that. Basically anything that makes you feel alive.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, humor, toothbrush, the ocean, sunsets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not to write a book about the odd online dating experiences I have had and some of the bizarre messages I have received. I have saved many of the crazier messages, which has provided hilarious entertainment for my friends, but really is kind of a sad commentary on how challenging this process can be. Including a stalker over a 2 year period across multiple sites and legal restraining order.
I have had to get familiar with pepper spray and stun guns. When a stalker shows up at the front door... Yeah. It happened.
Before you write and tell me to find someone out in my daily life... How is that workin' for you? I wouldn't be on here if that was working.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home, but random outings do happen. Try to get up to LA to see my kids once in awhile. Vegas conventions once or twice a year.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am actually 53-this ALWAYS surprises people.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are cute, smart, very fit, and are very charming. PLUS- a big animal lover. Pets, wildlife, you love it all. You are NOT a hunter.