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49 F San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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So- have been on here long enough to have answered a ridiculous number of questions- about 2 years. If I could UN answer them I would.

Just learning to kite board!

I have a great life.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working my own business and I have flexibility in my schedule- so that's awesome! Enjoying what I'm doing.

Some achievements have included appearing on HGTV demonstrating my art, been published in my industry several times, opened over 200 accounts for a game company I was a founding partner in.
Currently my art has started to attract some celebrity attention online, and I am working on a book.

Eating right, and taking care of myself.

Energy wise I am closer to guys in their early to mid 40s. I enjoy the wisdom and stability of older guys, but a little harder to find the chemistry there, 60 is definite cutoff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend, listening, having mature objective opinions, art. I am also usually very clear on what my needs are and express them with good humor and kindness, I'm good at being fair. I'm good at making people feel good about themselves. Great at putting others first.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dazzling smile! And my green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Like healthy foods, comedies, concerts. Current pop to classic rock and some electronica- my son is an electronic music composer- so I'm very supportive of him with that. Basically anything that makes you feel alive.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, humor, toothbrush, the ocean, sunsets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
For me to know and you to find out
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home, but random outings do happen. Try to get up to LA to see my kids once in awhile. Vegas conventions once or twice a year.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am actually 53-this ALWAYS surprises people.
I tend to be on the quiet side unless I have a strong opinion about something and see value in sharing it. I believe listening is a great quality- you learn a lot more in life from listening than from talking. But when someone attempts to engage me in conversation I definitely reciprocate.
I can have a wacky sense of humor at times and I love to laugh. And my area of interests fit more with people in their 30s-40s.
You should message me if
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You are cute, smart, very fit, and are very charming.