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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 39-49
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 20
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm too busy right now for romance (yes, really), but am happy to make new friends using the OkC Match, Friend and Enemy percentages.

Because everyone asks why I'm here if I'm not dating, I've been here for ten years, and my friends are here. "Too busy" is the literal truth, but friendships are much less time consuming and tiring than romance, so they're more compatible with school.
What I’m doing with my life
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I should graduate in December with a B.A. in English (Writing) and Philosophy. Next up: grad school. I go dancing when I'm not too busy studying.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at pattern analysis, creative problem solving, and throwing myself back into the fray over and over until the other side proposes an equitable plan for peace. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Intense, bright and odd are words I've heard applied to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Sci-Fi/Fantasy -- Mercedes Lackey, Pat Cadigan, Piers Anthony, Anne McCaffrey, Robert Heinlein, Spider Robinson

Movies: Rubin & Ed; Breakfast Club; Blues Brothers; Pump Up the Volume

Shows: WKRP; Muppets; Star Trek DS9; Buffy; Gilmore Girls; House; Friends; Bones

Music: Anything from a decade or more ago, especially New Wave and Classic Rock.

Food: I'll eat mostly anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Plans, hope, stories, friends, a challenge and a sense of humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...what to do about grad school. I've been hacking away at my bachelor's degree for so long that knowing that's almost over kind of freaks me out. I'm trying to find a program that will cover my fees and pay me a stipend to TA while I pursue my PhD. But there aren't a lot of those, so I'm not sure where I'll end up. Change is scary.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...out dancing at a goth club, or home with my cats watching The Rachel Maddow Show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm told I'm a little bit autistic. I'm not sure this is a bad thing. I like the way my brain works.
You should message me if
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Probably you shouldn't message me. I often write back, but it seems like fewer and fewer people are on OkC looking for just friends.