Also! I have not been in a relationship for 4 years, and I could not be "happier" (I don't want to be happy, I just want to be okay with me. And I am.) in my life. This also does not mean I am not open to the idea of building a foundation with someone, regardless of what it is.
By the way, fuck gender roles. I am a straight man, and I should not have to message someone first. If I view your profile, and do not message you, it's not because I am not interested. It is because for once, I want to be the one who is being persued. This does not mean I want things to fall into my lap, I am just sick of the guessing games. Message me if you want to change up the world with me.