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56 M Sydney, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Thoughtful, romantic with a wild streak.
What I’m doing with my life
I am moving into new trajectories, having been kind of average on the empathy scale I am now exploring the world of helping others.
"circumcise your hearts and be no longer stiff-necked" deut 30-6
Not that I am a christian however - but I do believe in spiritual progress - and find it a shame that the western yogic tradition is so often overlooked in favour of the eastern. Compassion is at the core of all traditions. the icy fingers of love devouring entropy surround us, a warm heart is our only defence .
I’m really good at
Am I good at anything ? I have designed and personally built 2 houses - restored and love sailing my 1920's classic yacht - I teach and practice photography - I have been a pro most of my working life.
My new gig is a community service organisation that I am building from the ground up and I love it.
I am a relentless auto-didact however so I am pre-disposed to self-delusion..... But!....I still get things done.
AH! just thought of something ! I am good at having mind challenging conversations with women who may well have a higher IQ than myself without getting defensive.
And I am a good 'boy scout'...I like to think I am always prepared. Ok,Ok !!!...might be that delusional thang again!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a voracious omnivorous reader. I draw the line at clunky.
Movies - hell - I watch any thing that peels back the layers on the human condition — 'Lynch' is a standout — but it goes right back to seeing my very first movie as a child — 'Nosferatu' 1922 Dir. F.W.Murnau...... AND I just like to be entertained !
Food - well I like it — cooking it — eating it — reading about it even. I like any cuisine — done surprisingly, eaten with gratitude. I think the French Paradox will prove that it matters little what you eat(within reason)-it's how you eat that counts. Eating alone is to be generally avoided and I find it quite difficult (altho' not impossible) to enjoy a meal without an accompanying glass of red
Music - totally eclectic — situation/mood based entirely-but it must be played from the heart and capable of transporting mine. Love being surprised by the newest.
Theatre/Dance - bring it on-just hold the cliches.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order..........
taking the helm of my frail barque and sailing it towards the horizon -fire gazing - barefoot earth walking - wind talking - water on my skin - touch and be touched - the frisson generated between light and dark - birdsong, (especially when they look at you with their dinosaur eyes) - sharing words wordlessly.
(my propensity to dismiss arbitrary rules seems hardwired - so not sure if I could do without it or not)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
thinking ! As in - why am I thinking about 'that' ? Surely I have something better to think about.
Still, between the gaps I think about what is significant in my life and what is redundant .
On a typical Friday night I am
I might be sailing a twilight race on Sydney Harbour, I might be having a night in, I might be lonely, I might be howling at the moon while sitting around a campfire.
Fact is - Friday is pretty much like any other night.... Pregnant with possibilities !!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
what a small word " if " is........yet, what a universe is contained within it....
..' If ' this is the kind of thought that makes you smile....I would like to know !