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56 Sydney, Australia Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:26am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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My mind revels in 'seeing '
My body revels in challenge
My spirit revels in the shimmer of the ineluctable on the surface of the implacable.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Continuously avoiding definition. I thrive on fluidity and for my next challenge. My "self" is a work in progress, I hope yours is too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Am I good at anything ? I have designed and personally built 2 houses - restored and love sailing my 1920's classic yacht - I teach and practice photography - I have been a pro most of my working life.
My new gig is a community service organisation that I am building from the ground up and I love it.
I am a relentless auto-didact however so I am pre-disposed to self-delusion..... But!....I still get things done.
AH! just thought of something ! I am good at having mind challenging conversations with women who may well have a higher IQ than myself without getting defensive.
And I am a good 'boy scout'...I like to think I am always prepared. Ok,Ok !!!...might be that delusional thang again!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes !
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am a voracious omnivorous reader. I draw the line at clunky.
Movies - hell - I watch any thing that peels back the layers on the human condition — 'Lynch' is a standout — but it goes right back to seeing my very first movie as a child — 'Nosferatu' 1922 Dir. F.W.Murnau...... AND I just like to be entertained !
Food - well I like it — cooking it — eating it — reading about it even. I like any cuisine — done surprisingly, eaten with gratitude. I think the French Paradox will prove that it matters little what you eat(within reason)-it's how you eat that counts. Eating alone is to be generally avoided and I find it quite difficult (altho' not impossible) to enjoy a meal without an accompanying glass of red
Music - totally eclectic — situation/mood based entirely-but it must be played from the heart and capable of transporting mine. Love being surprised by the newest.
Theatre/Dance - bring it on-just hold the cliches.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order..........
taking the helm of my frail barque and sailing it towards the horizon -fire gazing - barefoot earth walking - wind talking - water on my skin - touch and be touched - the frisson generated between light and dark - birdsong, (especially when they look at you with their dinosaur eyes) - sharing words wordlessly - finding meaning in another humans heart.
(my propensity to dismiss arbitrary rules seems hardwired - so not sure if I could do without it or not)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
thinking ! As in - why am I thinking about 'that' ? Surely I have something better to think about.
Still, between the gaps I think about what is significant in my life and what is redundant .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday ! So what ?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Zilch !
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