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50 San Mateo, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Today – 4:53pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I believe it's better to learn a lot of this stuff through direct interactions, but you have to know something initially.... First, I will look like my pictures if we meet. I haven't lived with buddhist monks in Tibet and I honestly don't know exactly where my passport is....if I need it, I'll be able to find it. Nor have I built houses for the homeless in Cape Town. Doesn't mean I don't care, just don't think I need to have done things like that to be attractive to you (if you have, I respect that and you for doing stuff like that). I also don't have any pictures of me posing in front of my corvette, porsche, or vintage ...enter name of favorite sports car here, or any pics of my rock hard six pack (oh wait, I don't have one).

In case you haven't gathered, I'm brutally honest with a hint of sarcasm, but not in a disrespectful way. I'm fun, like to laugh and am fairly certain I can make you laugh (just like every other guy you've read about on these sites). I don't cook that much, so I won't be wowing you with my culinary repertoire. I do however, don't mind doing dishes the old fashioned way....that means washing them with a sponge (not some new fangled brushing thing that you put soap in). Avid sports fan (mostly soccer, hockey and, not couch potato), lifelong soccer player (goalkeeper) and still play in a competitive league (may be moving slowly on most Monday mornings). Very involved in my kids' lives in many ways (lots of coaching my son's sports), so if you're looking for someone who is free 5 -7 nights a week, that's not me. Having said that, I will make time for us (and do actually have time for that), if you and I become an us. Loyal, giving, kind, considerate, respectful, caring, warm, affectionate and generally pretty fun.

Other notable and perhaps useful information: Like to hold hands, love to kiss, will carry your coat if it's too hot, don't mind going shopping with you, happy to take out your trash if I'm ever invited to your place, don't mind carrying your ID, lipstick and money in the event you're traveling light on a particular evening, am pretty good at planning stuff, but can also be spontaneous and "roll with it," and can carry a decent conversation with your family members or friends that won't have them saying to you later, "what on earth are you thinking?" Lastly, I should clarify that my name ("Keeper1050") has very little to do with me thinking I'm some great catch and everything to do with the fact that I'm a soccer goalkeeper, although, you can decide if "catch" is appropriate if you get to know me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying myself while trying to be a good person, which means many things.

Executive at Biotech startup, but that aspect of me is boring (I think). I can teach you all about DNA if that is of interest to you!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, understanding people. Organizing for a trip (maybe a little over the top on this), taking care of others' needs; I think about other people a lot and consider myself to be very considerate of others.

Washing my (or perhaps your) car windows at the gas station.
Texting while driving while also putting on my makeup (just kidding).
Being on time; extremely punctual person here. Doesn't mean you have to be too.

Singing while driving with zero actual singing ability (often done when my daughter and her friends are in the car)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some have said I seem so serious....I say, not when you get to know me, which doesn't take long at all. I have a bit of a hidden, whacky side to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite movies may reveal a lot about me (work with me okay....):
Apocalypse Now
Animal House (love this one)
Clockwork Orange (I know, a strange one)
I can list more, but this will give you a flavor....

More or less like all types of music, but not too into country. I actually think I could write a good country song though. It would probably start off with something about a woman, would include mention of a river, lake, or field and would build up to talking about love, longing or a mistake I made while pursuing love (which is why I'm perhaps the song that is)
Top 40/Pop (influenced by my 14 year old daughter)
Some classical, although not that knowledgable here; like to listen to it at times
Classic Rock
Some jazz, but also not that knowledgable here

Books: Mindless fiction. I have a couple of authors that I like. I don't have a lot of time to read in my everyday life, so I like to read stuff that doesn't make me have to think too hard. (don't get me wrong....doesn't mean I don't like to think or engage in intelligent, intellectually stimulating conversations....just like my reading light). Having said that, I'm very close to finishing Outliers.

Food: Sushi, Asian (particularly like Thai), Italian. I'm generally pretty open to trying all kinds of foods and am not too picky. Not a big fan of Tofu though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not necessarily in order:
1. My Kids
2. Pizza (ok, pretty sure I could do without it, but I do love this food)
3. Sports, this includes a soccer ball; usually have one close at hand (watching/playing sports..don't worry, I'm not a couch potato)
4. Exercising (not fanatical). I include a lot of wonderful outdoor things here as well, such as camping (have all the gear if you're interested but perhaps inexperienced), hiking, backpacking, exploring beaches, forests, etc.
5. Physical contact with a woman I have strong feelings for (this would be accompanied by a strong emotional/mental connection, which can come in many shapes and sizes and forms)
6. Music (like many, but not all, kinds of music)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next meal....I like to eat! Don't worry, I'm not fat, I just need three square meals a day usually.

Has everyone on this site been to every country in the world; maybe I'm the only one who hasn't. Food for thought.... (I've traveled a fair amount, mostly in Europe and parts of Asia and mostly on work related trips).

Why people choose as their main profile picture, a pic of them with one other girlfriend or adult. OK, admittedly, I don't spend a lot of time thinking about this, but I am curious. Similarly, I also wonder why people post pictures of themselves with lots of other people, but don't identify which one they are (these are usually or often people who look different in every picture they post; guess which one of these attractive women I am).

Why people drive 55 mph on the freeway (bit of a pet peeve of mine)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my kids every other weekend (yes, let's get this on the table from the get go). On those non-kid weekends, hanging out with friends, sometimes staying in and watching a movie, sometimes going away somewhere for the weekend, ideally spending time with that special someone that I'm going to meet here!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I run very hot and will keep you warm at night if you're near me (within 3 feet is probably close enough to be kept warm). I seldom need or wear a jacket (it has to be like 50 or less for me to need a jacket).
You should message me if
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You want to meet a guy who will make you laugh, hold your hand as we stroll wherever. Also message me if you like kissing....something that is very important to me and something I want to share with you as soon as we are both comfortable with that (I'm not big on forcing these things when they're not there, nor do I have a checklist....ok...2nd date, must kiss, ok....4th date must ________ (not sure what goes in this blank, but nothing for me). I like to move at a pace that we're both comfortable with.

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