I think I'm happiest when I approach life with curiosity and compassion.
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Kefalopod
28 / F / Bisexual / Seeing someone
San Diego, California
Her Details
- Last Online
- May 4
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m).
- Body Type
- Thin
- Diet
- Anything
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Socially
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Atheism
- Sign
- Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Working on Ph.D program
- Job
- Education / Academia
- Income
- Rather not say
- Offspring
- Doesn’t have kids
- Pets
- Likes dogs and has cats
- Speaks
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
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I think I'm happiest when I approach life with curiosity and compassion.
When I'm not working (or sometimes while I am working), I like to listen to music, be outside, cook, bake, read, play, or converse. I should probably find one or two more structured hobbies. I'd also like to take advantage more often of what San Diego has to offer, such as Residents Free Tuesdays at Balboa Park. I've only been a few times, and have particularly enjoyed the Mingei, the San Diego Museum of Art, and the Natural History Museum.
I tend to be a bit quiet and reserved, especially in situations where there are many people around, or where I don't know people well. I am capable of being outgoing with new people, but it does take some effort. In the long run, I can actually be quite talkative, but this tends to happen when I am comfortable and know my conversation partner very well.
Books: American Gods, Neverwhere, Flatland, The Confusions of Young Torless, A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man, Everything is Illuminated, Hitchhiker's Guide, Embassytown (not the greatest plot, but interesting ideas), Shadow Show, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead (play), collections of poetry (especially Billy Collins, E.E. Cummings, A.R. Ammons, Jack Gilbert)
Movies: Yes, Paris je t'aime, Le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain, Fight Club, Secretary, Real Genius, Clue
Shows: Doctor Who, Community, Sherlock, Battlestar Galactica
Music: Andrew Bird, Beirut, Björk, the Black Keys, Buena Vista Social Club, Cat Power, DeVotchKa, Dirty Projectors, Erykah Badu, Fat Freddy's Drop, Feist, Frightened Rabbit, Hey Marseilles, Iron & Wine, Joni Mitchell, José González, Kishi Bashi, Lykke Li, Madeleine Peyroux, Mingus, Nine Inch Nails, Placebo, Portishead, Ratatat, Starfucker, Thao Nguyen with the Get Down Stay Down, Tinariwen, Tom Waits, TV on the Radio
Food: I am partial to things that are spicy or inventive. I love to cook and bake, and enjoy constant novelty, as well as a set of dependable dishes. Trying new things while out is always exciting, but I think I will always prefer home cooked food. Lately I've been enjoying playing with recipes from Deborah Madison's "Vegetarian Cooking for Everyone."
1. Tea or coffee (can't choose)
2. Good music
3. Clever banter (which requires an interlocutor, so one or more of those get(s) cheated into this list. I enjoy wordplay and, fair warning, am pro pun)
4. Sources of interesting information (Such as radiolab, for example. I like learning new things, especially when they are presented in a thoughtful way)
5. A library (it felt unfair to let this be cheated into 'sources of interesting information', especially given that I'd mostly use the library to find fiction or poetry, and I'm already cheating 'language data' into several of these answers)
6. ...Affection?
If I had access to all these things, I would probably be pretty happy. Although the list could be improved by the inclusion of alcohol, and implements/ingredients for cooking/baking.
I think about cooking and baking. I probably spend too much time looking at recipes, or reading design blogs, but I can't think about language *all* the time. When I'm able, I'll bake to de-stress. There's something comforting in precisely following rules to achieve a specific, predictable result. But then, riffing is fun, too. I seem to spend a fair amount of time thinking about topics related to gender, sexuality, and power in society. I like to walk and be outside, letting my mind wander, or trying not to think. I read. Does that count as something I spend time thinking about?
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