47 Cape May Court House, NJ
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My self-summary
Well, let’s see… I am 45 years old and have spent the last 3 years trying to figure out how to get back into the dating seen after a 21 year relationship. In these 3 years I have gone through all the grief of the divorce, figured out how to get along with the Ex, and deal with being a single Dad. I am now, I believe, ready to move on to a new stage of single life.

A little about me…I am fun and always on the go. I spend a lot of time with my kids and my family. I am an outdoors kinda guy. Lately, I have been spending a good deal of time at the gym and I recently changed my body type on this site from “about average” to “athletic and toned”. I run about 12 miles a week. I do this so I can eat and drink what I want, when I want. I like football, dog walking, roller blading, kayaking, fishing, biking and hiking.

What am I looking for???? The truthful answer is I don’t know what I am looking for, because I have not found it yet. I can tell you what I am attracted too. I like girls that are shorter than me. I am attracted to girls with glasses, why I don’t know, but I am. I usually am dating the loudest, silliest, and most outgoing person in any room.

So, where I am going with this? When I find the right girl, I’ll know it and I will commit myself 100% to a relationship. Right now, I am looking for someone to meet for a cup of coffee, glass of wine or a beer. No pressure, no big expense and no major commitments, please don’t misunderstand me, I am not a player. Remember, I don’t know what I am looking for and I think it’s best to visit with some new people to refine my search.

I love to travel and have been to many interesting places. I spent Halloween last year in Dracula’s castle in Romania. My next adventure will be Ireland. I am a very good cook and was interviewed by the Rachael Rae show in March. I collect antiques and I make wine and beer in my spare time.

One more thing, I am not really interested in being someone’s sex friend or dating anyone a lot younger or older than me. I am looking for a generation X girl. If you email me and I don’t respond please don’t take it personally, at one point I made it a priority to respond to all emails and some ladies got nasty when I nicely said no thank you.

Good Luck!!
What I’m doing with my life
I am a sales manager for a large company and do a lot of travel.
I’m really good at
I can fix or build just about anything. I make beer and wine. I am also a great cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
Apparently I look like Jeff Foxworthy?? I get stopped in airports and sporting events and asked for my autograph on a regular basis. I think for fun I'll start signing them!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot, mostly historical fiction.

Music: classic rock

Food: I'll eat literally anything.
The six things I could never do without
My kids, my dog Mollie, good friends, my pocket knife, a cold beer on a hot Sunday, and a pretty girl to hang out with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics and the future of the country
On a typical Friday night I am
I get my kids every other weekend and on the off weekends I am out on the town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an INTJ personality. If you are unfamiliar with this, I suggest you visit this link.

The fact that I even mentioned this simply proves I am the definition of INTJ.....

I am interested in finding an ENFP personality if possible.
You should message me if
I enjoy conversations with just about anyone, send me a note.