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46 • Cape May Court House, NJ • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 38–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- May 15, 2014
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Catholicism, but not too serious about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and dislikes cats
A little about me…I am fun and always on the go. I spend a lot of time with my kids and my family. I am an outdoors kinda guy. Lately, I have been spending a good deal of time at the gym and I recently changed my body type on this site from “about average” to “athletic and toned”. I run about 12 miles a week. I do this so I can eat and drink what I want, when I want. I like football, dog walking, roller blading, kayaking, fishing, biking and hiking.
What am I looking for???? The truthful answer is I don’t know what I am looking for, because I have not found it yet. I can tell you what I am attracted too. I like girls that are shorter than me. I am attracted to girls with glasses, why I don’t know, but I am. I usually am dating the loudest, silliest, and most outgoing person in any room.
So, where I am going with this? When I find the right girl, I’ll know it and I will commit myself 100% to a relationship. Right now, I am looking for someone to meet for a cup of coffee, glass of wine or a beer. No pressure, no big expense and no major commitments, please don’t misunderstand me, I am not a player. Remember, I don’t know what I am looking for and I think it’s best to visit with some new people to refine my search.
I love to travel and have been to many interesting places. I spent Halloween last year in Dracula’s castle in Romania. My next adventure will be Ireland. I am a very good cook and was interviewed by the Rachael Rae show in March. I collect antiques and I make wine and beer in my spare time.
One more thing, I am not really interested in being someone’s sex friend or dating anyone a lot younger or older than me. I am looking for a generation X girl. If you email me and I don’t respond please don’t take it personally, at one point I made it a priority to respond to all emails and some ladies got nasty when I nicely said no thank you.
Music: classic rock
Food: I'll eat literally anything.
The fact that I even mentioned this simply proves I am the definition of INTJ.....
I am interested in finding an ENFP personality if possible.
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