Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


32 Santa Monica, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 21, 2014
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Busy busy busy lately. Sorry if I don't reply. Working 6 days a week and editing when possible. Also, doing my best to reduce the amount of demons in the world by playing some Diablo 3 when I have the time.

I'm a true nerd, if the announcement that I play Diablo didn't clue you in. But I also enjoy martial arts, working out, guns, and indoor rock climbing (though I haven't climbed in a while).

I was raised by parents who constantly wondered if I was their kid or not because I was so different from them. I only listened to classical music until middle school.

I think of being with friends and around people as a nice side dish. While a wonderful addition, I'm just as happy being alone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Professionally: Working on my second book.

Physically: P90X... Again... Woot? Regrowing my hair.

Personally: Teaching myself how to play guitar. This will be my third instrument.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Useless knowledge/trivia: I was on Academic Team in middle school and high school. Think, Jeopardy but with bonus questions if you get the toss up one right!

Disappearing: One part of this is I'm small. The other is martial arts. When I want to, or don't think about it, I cease to have a presence and end up accidentally sneaking up on people.

Conversations: I pride myself in the ability to talk to anyone about anything for at least 5 minutes. Engineering, sci-fi, theatre, sports, theoretical physics, you name it.

This one was pointed out to me recently -
Finding out information on people. Apparently I'm really good about learning the nuances of people incredibly quickly. We recently hired two new people at work and I know them better than anyone else. Weird.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you're standing close enough to me, it's probably going to be my really long eye lashes. Otherwise, I have a 6 year old smile (think Matt Damon's big smile), then my wit.

My penchant for non-sequiturs. This goes back to me having random leaps in logic/conversations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Anything Stephen King, Neil Gaiman, F. Paul Wilson, Richard K. Morgan, or something that is well written with a good story. Also, Shakespeare. I've been on a recent Steven Erikson kick.

Movies - Murder in the First, Shawshank Redemption, The Boondock Saints, Shall We Dance (the Japanese version), Milo & Otis (fave kid movie), The Dark Knight, etc. (ask me for a more complete list)

Music - Metallica, Dethklok (ridiculous, I know), Muse, Radiohead, Arturo Sandoval, The Seatbelts, Beethoven, Johnny Cash, Nobuo
Uematsu. Pretty much anything but reggae, hardcore rap, and hardcore country.

Food - Thai, Japanese, Mexican, in that order.

BTW- Seeing the music that I've listed, does anyone have a new suggestion for me? Hmmm?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
1 - Music
2 - Books
3 - Movies/Theatre
4 - Martial arts
5 - Internet
6 - A peaceful, quiet place to go when I need it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1 - Lists (I make lots of lists in my head, I have no idea why).

2 - Martial arts. What should I teach the students next. When I should take my next test. How to get inside my Sensei's defense while sparring with him (he's 6'2", I'm 5'6").

3 - Media. Figuring out the next book to read, or band to listen to, or movie to attend.

4 - Theoretical Physics. Like, could you actually teleport if you could figure out a way to bend the 3rd dimension by tapping the powers of the 4th dimension (and/or extreme amounts of gravity). And, if that works, could you only travel to places that you've been to before because you can prove you've been there in the past?

5 - Female OKCupid users with the fake mustaches. There are so many pictures of them. Why? I almost feel like it's the female version of the topless male. But instead of trying to make themselves more "sexy," they are trying to prove they are funny/unique. But seriously, can someone PLEASE explain this to me?

6 - What Okcupid has to say about me when they're listing me on someone else's page. You know what I mean. Do they say I'm less spiritual? More desiring of sex? More likely to become a super hero.... feel free to tell me.

7 - Now that I've been doing moderating on OKC, I'm curious if I've been reported.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm probably working. If not that, I'm most likely at home writing. Or, I could be in my top secret lab, plotting new and interesting things! MUAHAHAHAHAH
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a more physical version of Leonard Hofstadter from The Big Bang Theory (with less neediness and no lactose issue).

And something more embarrassing.... Somewhere out there is a video for my Elementary school with me and 3 friends air-banding to Weird Al Songs (Smells Like Nirvana, The White Stuff, and I think.... Blame it on the Drain). I will be forced to murder anyone that can find this video.

And a new one.... I've apparently been nominated to be a moderator for the site. Odd.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Things going for you (don't need all of them):
- You can run a 6 minute mile or throw a good reverse spinning hook kick.
- You have a workout regime and live a healthy(ish) lifestyle.
- You're intelligent or at least witty.
- Tattoos, piercings, or scars (I love the stories).
- You can tell me Konami's Code.
- You know who Nobuo Uematsu is.
- You have read at least 6 books in the past year.
- You're an insomniac like me.
- You like nerds and video games.
- You know and love the band No More Kings or Jimmie's Chicken Shack (I swear I'm the only person that knows either).
- You can deal with the fact that I have a chaotic schedule (even my close friends don't get to hang out as much as we'd like).

Add a photo to:

Stay fresh with Instagram

Are you sure you want to delete this album?

Where's your photo?

Drop it like it’s hot

Photos must be at least 400 x 400px
Edit thumbnail
Add a caption
You look great!
I’m Done