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49 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Dec 13
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Trying to quit
- Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on masters program
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
Food: Thai, Indian, Bar Be Que, Salads, Bacon, a good Alfredo sauce, Deep Dish Pizza with a Corn Meal Crust - Fennel Sausage and Mushrooms, most if not all vegetables.
Music: Stuff that makes me want to dance and sing. Born in, of, and to house music (bring on the live drums). I like both pretty and edgy music. I love jazz, Brazilian in particular. Every now and then I need to rock out to the Foo Fighters or the Stones... yes, I said "rock out".
Kimbra's cover of Nina Simone's "Plain Gold Ring" is for lack of a better word: STUNNING.
Joni Mitchell is always on heavy rotation as my mental background music... "They paved paradise, put up a parking lot..." Sergio Mendes and Chick Corea are my Pandora defaults.
I've never been to Burning Man and though I'm curious, I may be a little too old fashion for it all and... I like house music. Not mindless techno.
Movies: I'm a dude so I like movies where things blow up but more often than not I veg out on most things well written: period films, political thrillers, smart romantic comedies, gritty crime films. Sooner than later I'll watch everything the BBC offers on Netflix Streaming.
Books: While I much rather listen to Audiobooks then sit and read paper and print I will admit to finding pleasure, happiness, and contentment sharing a book and reading to someone I care about. Hmmm... haven't done that one in a long while. I like Len Deighton, John Le Carre, Walter Mosley, most things historical... and back in school I was a fan of E. E. Cummings. It would be nice to share a bit of Shakespeare with someone. The iambic pentameter has rhythms and a beats and if you get that then... we have something in common. Jon Stewart and Huffpost aren't really reading but both are part of my daily diet as are NPR and KQED.
Dance: I'm a sucker for dance... Doin it. Watchin it.
Text from my family and friends.
A really great climbing route.
A safe belay partner.
One of those conversation that leaves me a little breathless... and sometimes irritated.
My rocket ship... i.e. my car... or my bike.
My climbing harness and climbing shoes.
Skis, boots, and bindings.
Friends and family who don't mind my dents and bruises.
Right now I think about what makes me happy: climbing, skiing, and dance.
I do like the occasional last minuet call to go to a party or show.
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