59 Huntington Beach, CA
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My self-summary
I'm not like anyone you ever met. I am kind, gracious, strong, funny, smart, sensuous and spiritual. I'm fit but not fanatical about it, intelligent but not a geek, a Christian but not religious. I'm a responsible free spirit. I appreciate spontaneity and dancing like no one's watching. I've led a fascinating life so far and fully expect that to continue. My pics are accurate, some say I look better in person but they probably need glasses;)

I strive to be honest, kind, a good listener & a thoughtful creative lover. I enjoy passionate kissing. Long deep conversation doesn't bore me I find it stimulating. I'm genuine but tactful, I don't like liars and users and I would never willfully hurt anyone.

I'm looking for real love, my last first date, but it usually takes me a while to feel that way. The woman I seek 'gets me' and thinks I'm terrific - warts and all. I'll feel the same about her. The special woman I seek is slender, sweet, smart, sexy, spiritual sensuous & fit, fun & funny. She's beautiful inside and out. Making love is wonderful & important, I enjoy it immensely, but we'll spend a lot more time talking. You can have baggage as long as it's checked or on wheels:) Integrity is essential. Please do what you say and be honest.
What I’m doing with my life
I write books and screenplays, speak on spiritual growth and healing. I'm promoting my books and screenplays.
I’m really good at
Writing, listening, counseling, speaking & helping people heal & grow.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, smile, intelligence and wit. Life's too short for negativity & unecessary drama.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Grisham novels, books about Lincoln & other fascinating people. I like many great films like Ghosts, Flashdance, Passion of the Christ, Ben Hur, Les Miserables (1998), Patch Adams, West Side Story, Immortal Beloved, etc..

I enjoy French food, Thai, Seafood, Indian & eating healthy. Think protein rather than carbs.

Music tastes range from Rock
To Classical, Baroque & good worship music, Leonard Cohen, Diana Krall, George Gershwin, and and some country.... but no rap or hip hop.
The six things I could never do without
Good friends, family, faith, So Cal, my iPhone and writing. (Okay, I can live without some of these things but these are what I appreciate most.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Promoting writing & finding the love of my life. You're out there, right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing, reading or out with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm. Women never answer this Q and I can't imagine why;)
You should message me if
If I message you, I have read your profile but I always send a short note. My profile and many responses tell you a lot about me. Hopefully you too took the care to read it and posted recent pictures. After all, we're seeking the most important relationship in our lives here, right?
If I looked at your profile and didn't contact you it doesn't mean I'm not attracted. I may have felt I didn't match your parameters. If you like what you see and read, let's talk. I really hope you'll take a chance and reach out. If we talk, please avoid the 20 questions stuff and let's get to know each, deal?

Many people are so afraid to take chances they'll never find happiness. Love is risky. I'm tired of meeting women who don't look like their pictures. If you don't and I show up you're buying drinks till I don't care:)

Honestly, I want an ally in the greatest adventure a man and woman can have: a serious long term relationship. Yep, that's what I'm looking for. But it's too important to rush into. Did that once and it led to a 25 yr loveless marriage. I want a relationship everyone envies, the kind friends point to and say, "Now there's a happy couple." Before we tie the knot we'll get to know each other as friends and lovers, heart to heart, the good the bad and what little ugly there is. We'll know we are compatible intellectually, spiritually and passionately. We'll know what turns each other off...and on. And we'll be confident that this is our last great love. The most essential element for me is communication. If we can respect each other, stay in the room and work through everything, we will always get better; there will be only winners, no losers.

If you've learned not to overthink everything or be easily offended or overly believe in your intuition (I think women's intuition is right - about 60% of the time), if you can seek love with faith & not write it off from FEAR (False Expectations Appearing Real), we just might be able to create a monumental love. I hope so:) And please be close... unless you're from the south and willing to relocate. Southern women seem to know how to treat their man.

Concerning my faith: True Christianity isn't about religion it's about our relationships with God and others. It's also about joy, peace, lovingkindness, patience and fidelity; we'll have each other's back. I want my last intimate relationship to be a foretaste of Heaven. What do you want?