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55 M Huntington Beach, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:50pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm not like anyone you ever met. I am kind, gracious, strong, funny, and spiritual. I'm fit but not fanatical about it, intelligent but not a geek, a Christian but not religious. I'm a free spirit and think outside the box. I appreciate spontaneity and serendipity and dancing like no one's watching. I am many things but boring isn't one of them. I've led a fascinating life so far and fully expect that to continue. My pictures are current.

Someone recently asked me what makes me different. I told her I'm honest, kind, compassionate, a great listener, a thoughtful yet creative lover. I enjoy passionate kissing and self-deprecating humor. Long deep conversation doesn't bore me I find it stimulating. I don't like liars, users or players and I would never willfully hurt a woman. I'm authentic but tactful.

I'm looking for genuine love, my last first date. She will be someone who 'gets me' and thinks I'm terrific - warts and all. I'll feel the same about her. The special woman I seek is fit, sweet, smart, spiritual sensuous, fun and a great kisser. She's beautiful inside and out. She must be a good listener - that's essential. Making love is wonderful but we'll spend a lot more time talking. You can have baggage as long as it's checked or on wheels:)
What I’m doing with my life
I write books and screenplays, speak on spiritual growth and healing and am an entrepreneur. I'm promoting my books and screenplays and capitalizing my new media business.
I’m really good at
Writing, listening, counseling, speaking and helping people heal and grow.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, smile, intelligence and wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love Grisham, books about Lincoln, Napoleon, VanGogh and other fascinating people. My new favorite is The Game of Life and How to Play it. I like many great films like Ghosts, Flashdance, Passion of the Christ, Ben Hur, Les Miserables (1998), Patch Adams, West Side Story, Immortal Beloved, Amadeus, etc..

I enjoy French food, Thai, Indian and eating healthy.

Music tastes are eclectic: Rock, Classic Rock, Classical, Baroque, good CCM. Leonard Cohen, Diana Krall, George Gershwin, even Keisha, Lady Gaga and some country.... but no rap or hip hop.
The six things I could never do without
Good friends, family, living in So Cal, my GPS and iPhone, writing and fitness. (Okay, more than 6, and I can live without some of these things but these are the things I appreciate the most.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My new company, writing, promoting my books and screenplays, and finding the love of my life. You're out there, right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm older than 53, but my pictures are from this summer. I used to judge women who lied about their age but I get it now. If you've done online dating a while you probably get it too. If I were a liar would I have told you this? Having said that I truly wish you as much happiness as I desire for myself. If we can create that together that would be awesome:)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
... I seldom message women because they usually get so many inquiries that they seldom respond. When I do message someone, rest assured, I have read your profile and many of your responses, but I always send a SHORT note. My profile tells you a great deal about me and if you like it, let's talk. If you feel we may be a good match, I hope you'll take a chance and reach out. It's 2013 and you've got nothing to lose. If you don't, we both may miss a wonderful match ;(

OKC says I'm more arrogant but I think I'm just very confident. huge difference, no? ;)