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55 M Huntington Beach, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:46am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm not like anyone you ever met. I am kind, gracious, strong, funny, smart, sensuous and spiritual. I'm fit but not fanatical about it, intelligent but not a geek, a Christian but not religious. I'm a free spirit and think outside the box. I appreciate spontaneity and serendipity and dancing like no one's watching. I am many things but boring isn't one of them. I've led a fascinating life so far and fully expect that to continue. My pictures are two years old but still look like me.

Someone recently asked me what makes me different. I told her I'm honest, kind, a great listener and a thoughtful yet creative lover. I enjoy passionate kissing and self-deprecating humor. Long deep conversation doesn't bore me I find it stimulating. I'm genuine but tactful I don't like liars and users and I would never willfully hurt a woman. I feel bad that so many women encounter players and creeps online.

I'm looking for real love, my last first date, but it usually takes me a while to feel that way. The woman I seek 'gets me' and thinks I'm terrific - warts and all. I'll feel the same about her. The special woman I seek is fit, sweet, smart, sexy, spiritual sensuous, fun and a great kisser. She's beautiful inside and out. She must be a good listener - that's essential. Making love is wonderful and very important, I enjoy it immensely, but we'll spend a lot more time talking. You can have baggage as long as it's checked or on wheels:) Integrity is essential. Please do what you say.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write books and screenplays, speak on spiritual growth and healing and am an entrepreneur. I'm promoting my books and screenplays and capitalizing my new media business.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, listening, counseling, speaking and helping people heal and grow.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, smile, intelligence and wit. Hope you'd rather laugh than cry. I don't like drama, trauma or relationshit. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love Grisham, books about Lincoln, Napoleon, VanGogh and other fascinating people. I like many great films like Ghosts, Flashdance, Passion of the Christ, Ben Hur, Les Miserables (1998), Patch Adams, West Side Story, Immortal Beloved, Amadeus, etc..

I enjoy French food, Thai, Seafood, Indian and eating healthy. Think protein rather than carbs. I'll probably never be a vegetarian.

Music tastes are eclectic: Rock, Classic Rock, Classical, Baroque, good CCM. Leonard Cohen, Diana Krall, George Gershwin, and even Keisha, Lady Gaga and some country.... but no rap or hip hop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends, family, faith, So Cal, my Convertible and iPhone and writing. (Okay, more than 6, and I can live without some of these things but these are the things I appreciate the most.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My new company, writing, promoting my books and screenplays, and finding the love of my life. You're out there, right? Then if you're fit and think we fit, please contact me already, what are you waiting for? ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing or out with friends. On rare occasions I'm meeting a new potential soul mate.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm older than 55, but my pictures are current. I used to judge women who lied about their age but I get it now. If you've done online dating a while you probably get it too. If I were a liar I wouldn't have told you this, right? Having said that I truly wish you as much happiness as I desire for myself. If we can create that together that would be awesome:)
You should message me if
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... I seldom message women because they usually get so many inquiries that they seldom respond. If I message you, I have read your profile but I always send a SHORT note. My profile and many responses tell you a great deal about me. Hopefully you too took the care to read it and have good pictures and thoughtful responses and answers. After all, we're seeking the most important relationship in our lives here, right? Selfies and very few responses to questions tell me this isn't very important to you or you may be hiding something. It helps if you have an edge. Women often like bad boys and like most guys I know think girls who are too good are usually boring also. YOLO, right? Grab some gusto, as long as it's not bitter or causes drama or trauma..

If I looked at your profile and didn't contact you it doesn't mean I'm not attracted. I may have felt I didn't match YOUR parameters. If you like what you see and read, let's talk. I hope you'll take a chance and reach out. It's 2014 and you've got nothing to lose. If you don't, we both may miss a wonderful experience and maybe even true and lasting love. That would be a shame.