Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not like anyone you ever met. I am kind, gracious, strong,
funny, smart, sensuous and spiritual. I'm fit but not fanatical
about it, intelligent but not a geek, a Christian but not
religious. I'm sort of a responsible free spirit and think outside
the box. I appreciate spontaneity and serendipity and dancing like
no one's watching. I am many things but boring isn't one of them.
I've led a fascinating life so far and fully expect that to
continue. My pictures are accurate, most say I look better in
Someone recently asked me what makes me different. I told her I'm
honest, kind, a great listener and a thoughtful yet creative lover.
I enjoy passionate kissing and self-deprecating humor. Long deep
conversation doesn't bore me I find it stimulating. I'm genuine but
tactful I don't like liars and users and I would never willfully
I'm looking for real love, my last first date, but it usually takes
me a while to feel that way. The woman I seek 'gets me' and thinks
I'm terrific - warts and all. I'll feel the same about her. The
special woman I seek is fit, sweet, smart, sexy, spiritual
sensuous, fun, funny and a fabulous kisser. She's beautiful inside
and out and a terrific listener - that's essential. Making love is
wonderful and very important, I enjoy it immensely, but we'll spend
a lot more time talking. You can have baggage as long as it's
checked or on wheels:) Integrity is essential. Please do what you
say and be honest.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I write books and screenplays, speak on spiritual growth and
healing. I'm promoting my books and screenplays.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, listening, counseling, speaking and helping people heal
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, smile, intelligence and wit. Life's too short for
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love Grisham novels, books about Lincoln, Napoleon, VanGogh and
other fascinating people. I like many great films like Ghosts,
Flashdance, Passion of the Christ, Ben Hur, Les Miserables (1998),
Patch Adams, West Side Story, Immortal Beloved, etc..
I enjoy French food, Thai, Seafood, Indian and eating healthy.
Think protein rather than carbs. I'd make a terrible
Music tastes are eclectic: Rock, Classic Rock, Classical, Baroque,
good CCM. Leonard Cohen, Diana Krall, George Gershwin, and and some
contemporary rock and country.... but no rap or hip hop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends, family, faith, So Cal, my iPhone and writing. (Okay,
I can live without some of these things but these are the things I
appreciate the most.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Promoting my books and screenplays, and finding the love of my
life. You're out there, right? I was also shocked to learn that so
many women are comfortable in jeans and a fancy dress. I mean, that
doesn't even sound comfortable ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing or out with friends. On rare occasions I'm meeting a new
potential soul mate.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I know many women on here lie about their age. I used to judge them
for that but I get it now and I'm fine with that. If you've done
online dating a while you probably get it too. The metrics work
against us all.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If I message you, I have read your profile but I always send a
short note. My profile and many responses tell you a lot about me.
Hopefully you too took the care to read it and posted recent
pictures. After all, we're seeking the most important relationship
in our lives here, right?
If I looked at your profile and didn't contact you it doesn't mean
I'm not attracted. I may have felt I didn't match your parameters.
If you like what you see and read, let's talk. I really hope you'll
take a chance and reach out. Many people are so afraid to take
chances they'll never find happiness. Love is usually risky. I'm
tired of meeting women who don't look like their pictures. If you
don't and I show up you're buying drinks till I don't care:)
Okay, here's the real deal: Honestly, I want an ally in the
greatest adventure a man and woman can have: a serious long term
relationship. Yep, that's what I'm looking for. But it's too
important to rush into. Did that once and it led to a 25 yr
loveless marriage. I want a relationship everyone envies, the kind
friends point to and say, "Now there's a happy couple." Before we
tie the knot we'll get to know each other as friends and lovers,
heart to heart, the good the bad and what little ugly there is.
We'll know we are compatible intellectually, spiritually and
passionaately. We'll know what turns each other off...and what
turns each other on. And we'll be confident that this is our last
great love; we'll be in it for the long haul. The most essential
element in that for me is communication. If we can respect each
other, stay in the room and work through everything, we will always
get better; there will be only winners, no losers.
If you've learned not to overthink everything or be easily offended
or overly believe in your intuition (I think women's intuition is
right - about 60% of the time), if you can seek love with faith not
write it off from FEAR (False Expectations Appearing Real), we just
might be able to create a monumental love. I hope so:) And please
be close... unless you're from the south and willing to relocate.
Southern women know how to treat their man.
Concerning my faith: True Christianity isn't about religion it's
about our relationships with God and others. It's also about joy,
peace, lovingkindness, patience and fidelity, where we have each
other's back. I want my last intimate relationship to be a
foretaste of Heaven. What do you want?
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