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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:38pm
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm not like anyone you ever met. I am kind, gracious, strong, funny, smart, sensuous and spiritual. I'm fit but not fanatical about it, intelligent but not a geek, a Christian but not religious. I'm sort of a responsible free spirit and think outside the box. I appreciate spontaneity and serendipity and dancing like no one's watching. I am many things but boring isn't one of them. I've led a fascinating life so far and fully expect that to continue. My pictures are accurate, most say I look better in person.

Someone recently asked me what makes me different. I told her I'm honest, kind, a great listener and a thoughtful yet creative lover. I enjoy passionate kissing and self-deprecating humor. Long deep conversation doesn't bore me I find it stimulating. I'm genuine but tactful I don't like liars and users and I would never willfully hurt anyone.

I'm looking for real love, my last first date, but it usually takes me a while to feel that way. The woman I seek 'gets me' and thinks I'm terrific - warts and all. I'll feel the same about her. The special woman I seek is slender, sweet, smart, sexy, spiritual sensuous, also fit, fun, funny and a fabulous kisser. She's beautiful inside and out and a good listener - that's essential. Making love is wonderful and very important, I enjoy it immensely, but we'll spend a lot more time talking. You can have baggage as long as it's checked or on wheels:) Integrity is essential. Please do what you say and be honest.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write books and screenplays, speak on spiritual growth and healing. I'm promoting my books and screenplays.
I’m really good at
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Writing, listening, counseling, speaking and helping people heal and grow.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, smile, intelligence and wit. Life's too short for negativity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Grisham novels, books about Lincoln, Napoleon, VanGogh and other fascinating people. I like many great films like Ghosts, Flashdance, Passion of the Christ, Ben Hur, Les Miserables (1998), Patch Adams, West Side Story, Immortal Beloved, etc..

I enjoy French food, Thai, Seafood, Indian and eating healthy. Think protein rather than carbs. I'd make a terrible vegetarian.

Music tastes are eclectic: Rock, Classic Rock, Classical, Baroque, good CCM. Leonard Cohen, Diana Krall, George Gershwin, and and some contemporary rock and country.... but no rap or hip hop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends, family, faith, So Cal, my iPhone and writing. (Okay, I can live without some of these things but these are the things I appreciate the most.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Promoting my books and screenplays, and finding the love of my life. You're out there, right? I was also shocked to learn that so many women are comfortable in jeans and a fancy dress. I mean, that doesn't even sound comfortable ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing or out with friends. On rare occasions I'm meeting a new potential soul mate.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmmm. Women never answer this Q and I can't imagine why;)
You should message me if
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If I message you, I have read your profile but I always send a short note. My profile and many responses tell you a lot about me. Hopefully you too took the care to read it and posted recent pictures. After all, we're seeking the most important relationship in our lives here, right?
If I looked at your profile and didn't contact you it doesn't mean I'm not attracted. I may have felt I didn't match your parameters. If you like what you see and read, let's talk. I really hope you'll take a chance and reach out. If we talk, please avoid the 20 questions stuff and let's get to know each, deal?

Many people are so afraid to take chances they'll never find happiness. Love is usually risky. I'm tired of meeting women who don't look like their pictures. If you don't and I show up you're buying drinks till I don't care:)

Honestly, I want an ally in the greatest adventure a man and woman can have: a serious long term relationship. Yep, that's what I'm looking for. But it's too important to rush into. Did that once and it led to a 25 yr loveless marriage. I want a relationship everyone envies, the kind friends point to and say, "Now there's a happy couple." Before we tie the knot we'll get to know each other as friends and lovers, heart to heart, the good the bad and what little ugly there is. We'll know we are compatible intellectually, spiritually and passionaately. We'll know what turns each other off...and what turns each other on. And we'll be confident that this is our last great love; we'll be in it for the long haul. The most essential element in that for me is communication. If we can respect each other, stay in the room and work through everything, we will always get better; there will be only winners, no losers.

If you've learned not to overthink everything or be easily offended or overly believe in your intuition (I think women's intuition is right - about 60% of the time), if you can seek love with faith not write it off from FEAR (False Expectations Appearing Real), we just might be able to create a monumental love. I hope so:) And please be close... unless you're from the south and willing to relocate. Southern women know how to treat their man.

Concerning my faith: True Christianity isn't about religion it's about our relationships with God and others. It's also about joy, peace, lovingkindness, patience and fidelity, where we have each other's back. I want my last intimate relationship to be a foretaste of Heaven. What do you want?