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41 M Birmingham, AL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Has cats
English, Japanese (Okay), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a small retail shop owner, a single dad, an INFP, a nerd, a linguist, and a book-addict with no intention of recovering. I have been to thirteen different countries, and lived in two of them. I love languages and history; I read a ton of non-fiction but prefer movies for my fiction. I love terrible movies, especially horror, sci-fi, and fantasy. I like meeting new people, but tend to forget that and stay in instead. I can be a know-it-all; I try to limit it.
What I’m doing with my life
I have opened up my own brick-and-mortar shop on Southside where I get to meet fellow nerds and geeks and sell to them. When I am not working, I am a Dad, an occupation that brings me tremendous joy. When my little guy gets to be 18 or so, I plan to go back overseas and teach; my other passion.
I’m really good at
Cooking, analyzing languages, history, and politics, reading body language, listening, giving rub downs, remembering trivia
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a fairly big guy; almost 6 foot with broad shoulders, so I look bigger than I am. My eyebrows and jaw are rather brutal looking; the beard and mustache, despite making me look like a movie villain, are there to soften my face. I have been told that my eyes are very intense looking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Lord of the Rings, Gorky Park, and a huge pile of really dry, boring history books that I love.
Movies: Almost any sci-fi, fantasy, or horror, whether good or bad (bad ones are fun to laugh at). But I usually avoid gore- it's a cheap, lazy way to get a scare, so it is sooo over-used. I like other movies, too: Fight Club, The Fisher King, and Men Who Stare at Goats stand out.
Shows: Crime dramas, Bones, Grimm. I have all the old Buffy on dvd.
Music: I have an eclectic set of tastes- hard rock, classic rock, classical, folk
Food: Black Bean soup, surf'n turf, ceasar salads, lamb in just about any form (I have a wet rub for a rack of ribs that is to die for).
The six things I could never do without
My son, my books, my cats, my family, my friends, my mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"Living my life to the fullest"?!? Really?!? That is just no help at all. What does that even mean? "No, I am not living my life to the fullest, I prefer to completely squander it". Nope, makes no sense. Guys love to say, "I'm a nice guy"; another useless expression. Everybody can claim to be "nice"; the only information in that phrase is that he identifies as male. I'm pretty sure Hitler thought he was a nice guy, too ("I'm a vegetarian and I'm great with dogs. Yeah, I did some genocide, but, you know, what do you want? Nobody's perfect.")
In other words, I squander my life thinking about these things way too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either taking care of my son, working, or hanging out with some friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I deny everything, including the veracity of this statement.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
The above sounds appealing. I have been (sometimes brutally) honest in answering the questions; maybe more than is good for me. Be honest with me, and we should get along fabulously.