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  • Ages 20-42
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Last online
Yesterday – 10:37pm
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5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
After a nine-month hiatus, I am back in the dating pool. And I am so not ready.

Lately, I was curious and took a trip down memory lane in the form of old messages on here. I've been an OkCupid user for over nine years, holy cow! I read some of the messages former me has sent, and I am embarrassed at my younger self. I'm still a little embarrassed at myself for being a little socially awkward at times, but then again, who isn't nowadays? Had new acquaintances, a few relationships, and a couple of failed loves in that large amount of time, and I'm still trucking along trying to be optimistic and cheerful for whatever lies ahead.

Hello! My name is Kenneth. How are you today?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I graduated from CSUF with a bachelor's degree in Business Economics and Psychology. I've always wanted to be a secretary for the owner of a small business and help it grow--sort of help run and micromanage the company without necessarily being the face of the company itself. That or a massage therapist. I was never really formally taught how to give good back massages, but my technique is that I imagine how good it'd feel if someone were to massage my back in a certain way, then I'd replicate that. Our bodies really aren't so different from one another. I guess empathy was my teacher.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Humbling my friends at various video games. What games are you playing nowadays? (Kennington#1535)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get really excited about things sometimes. Silly things. If you want an easy way to get me to laugh, just say a cheesy pun; cheap laughs are still laughs after all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
And Then There Were None
Maniac McGee
The Giver
The Giving Tree
Where the Sidewalk Ends

Miyazaki (Spirited Away, etc.)
Disney (Hercules, Tangled, The Sword in the Stone, etc.)
Pixar (Finding Nemo, Wall-E, etc.)
Cloud Atlas was a good movie too. That introduced me to my crush on Ben Whishaw, and Skyfall only solidified it.

Avatar: The Last Airbender, Legend of Korra, Teen Titans, The Powerpuff Girls, X-Men: Evolution. I grew up on these shows and have fond memories of their adventures, tragedies, comedic moments.

Nujabes, DJ Okawari, Tommy Emmanuel, Nobuo Uematsu.

Oh, I can eat. Mexican, Korean BBQ, Italian, sushi (and especially the all-you-can-eat variant!), bring it on. There are occasions where I would crave a good woodfire burger topped with applewood bacon and cheese, and then there are other times where I'd want to cook pineapple curry. Granted, that curry is one of the only few things I know how to make, but I do want to learn more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
...are the six things that I could never do without.

Oh, and tautology.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Did I leave the stove on?

I theorycraft gaming strategies when I'm not actively playing. If you didn't get the feeling that I am a geek earlier, I think this should do it now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Open for adventure. Trying something new, be it going to a new location, doing a new activity, or eating something I've never had before.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was about 8 or 9, I was playing Super Mario RPG: Legend of the Seven Stars. One of the characters asked if I wanted a "recap." At this time, I've never heard of the word before, but I knew what a cap was and thought it was some sort of headgear. So I said yes to his offer. You can imagine my surprise when he started to repeat himself over and over!

I appreciate people who legitimately answer this section instead of saying that "it wouldn't be private anymore." It doesn't have to be your biggest secret--as we've seen here, a silly anecdote that only a handful of people know about could work.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. could answer me this question: if you could have any one superpower, what would it be and why?