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28 Virginia Beach, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi, my name is Talbert, I'm just as awesome and unique as my name. I originally hail from Texas, I do have that horrendous accent that everyone picks up on almost immediately, but I'm not a cowboy (I'm a Saints fan, sorry), I don't have a farm/ranch, but I sure as hell love Texmex, What-A-Burger, and Casa Ole!

I have a very dry and sarcastic sense of humor, that can escape many people's grasp, but it's all in good fun, and whatever makes me laugh or gets someone else to laugh is what's most important to me. I actually used to have a joke on here about how I only like to play sports cause it gives me an opportunity to meet other strong, sweaty men. I think I'm just going to keep doing Hollywood references so women will get the joke and I don't look too gay in the process.

I am pensive, sardonic, and witty, I hate people who suck at life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I hate being super cliche, but I'm in the Navy. I've been in CT, and left the beautiful island of Oahu in July. I enjoyed my time out there, but at least I now have an opportunity to wear more than just jeans and a t-shirt.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Starcraft II
-Heroes of the Storm
-Talking about obscure theoretical situations that can get quite interesting and fun
-Mini golf!
-Answering questions indirectly
-Witty banter
-Keeping whack conversations fluent
-Go karts
-Smoking people's asses in laser tag =P
The first things people usually notice about me
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Infectious laughter, style, spontaneity, playfulness, and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ender's Game and Ender's Shadow are two of my favorite books. I also have a lot of Chuck Palahniuk's stuff, Haunted and Rant made me laugh pretty hard. Sun Tzu's Art of War, and Stephen Hawking's A Brief History of Time. Plus I'm a guy and I find Tucker Max's books hysterical. Other favorites include Neuromancer, Hyperion, Fall of Hyperion, 1985, The Great Gatsby, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?, and the Lord of the Rings trilogy/Harry Potter (Don't hate.)

Braveheart and the Patriot are favorites because Mel Gibson goes apeshit and kills a lot of people in both of them. Requiem for a Dream, Se7en, A Clockwork Orange, The Crow, Gladiator, The Fourth Kind, Ip Man 1/2, Serenity, Powder, Donnie Darko, Rocky, Raging Bull, Batman, and Memento are among some favorites of mine, and that's excluding all the typical dickflicks where a lot of things explode (Rambo), blood splatters everywhere (Zombie flicks), and aliens. Classic scary movies like the Exorcist and Halloween make me giddy, and I'm a pretty big fan of Japanese style horror like the Ring and Grudge.

Everyone thinks they have weird taste in music, and I'm one of them. I love pretty much everything from the 80s, can bang my head to metal all day, can mellow out to some alternative rock, pretend I can dance to EDM, act gangster to rap music, and work up a sweat with some uplifting Rocky inspired tracks. I'm also addicted to K-pop, imagine how super embarrassing it is when my friends get in my car and last time I was in it I was jamming hard to T-ara. Awkward times FTW. I also happen to think Gunther's I'm Not Justin Bieber Bitch is the greatest music video of all time!

My favorite shows are The New Girl (I've gotten compared to Schmidt A LOT, so naturally I love the show), The Walking Dead, Scrubs, The Sopranos, Spartacus, and even though it was quite disgusting at times, Oz.

Listing foods that I enjoy would take too long. Let's just say I love food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Burt's Bees: I love that peppermint feel and smell, I even have the body wash (don't judge me, I like to smell like peppermint and I like that tingly feeling =/)
-Internet: I gotta keep my peeps updated.
-Nachos: I am not a fat kid by any means, but wow; nachos are wonderful.
-My own theme music
-A good laugh
-Good friends to share endless adventures with. Whether it's a bar crawl, a climb up a mountain, or enduring through a painfully slow workday together.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What other people are thinking about, quantum mechanics, space/time travel, daily agendas and how a nap fits into the equation, pranks, awkward situations, good cups of joe, metaphysics, astral projection, how religion may tie into the many new things that we're discovering on a daily basis, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends if I have work or not. In a theoretical nonworking situation, I am either mapping out my Saturday or I said "Fuck it" and started winging it immediately. Ideally out and about in a perfect world situation...hopefully this weather quits sucking balls soon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I had such a horrific online dating experience about two years ago that made me stop talking to women altogether for about three months. It was such a traumatic and life changing experience that every guy who has heard the story has had to change the way they do things as well. It's actually a really funny story, but at the same time, absolutely horrible.
You should message me if
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So cliche, but message me if you're interesting, entertaining, or want to start a weird conversation about unicorns, space/time travel, my strategies for global domination, or can find the one word I misspelled on this page. =]

If you're into metaphysics, PLEASE message me. I'd love to hear your experiences, I've recently gotten into it and it's been incredible so far.

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