I am one of those nice guys. I pick up litter, I stop to let people out of a side street when driving, I open doors for people, I believe in fairness and trust, compromise and consideration for others. I like to listen and share. I'm inquisitive, sometimes shy, but easy going. Co-workers say I'm the most interesting person they know, but I find them interesting as well, so I don't know what the novelty is...I have lots of friends who are just like me. But, I wouldn't consider myself an "average guy", I've been called a" nature boy", which is more fitting. I love the outdoors and being part of the wildness. I used to be part of a team that builds very big bonfires for festivals, so I like to be rough and tumble and have fun. When it's hot outside I prefer the looseness of a sarong (hawaiian-style) around my waist rather than jeans or shorts...I'm secure in my masculinity...and my eccentricities. I'm a very experienced camper (I even tent camped while a tornado passed by) but like to be comfortable. I'm not a big sports fan but I do enjoy soccer, especially on a Saturday or Sunday morning at a pub for breakfast.
Some of that probably makes me sound like a hippy, but I'm not. I consider myself a person who is very awake and aware of "us" on this rock floating through space. I'm not a fan of stigmas or stereotyping people and I believe everyone is equal. Everyone. On the other side of things, I have always worked in an office and fully enjoy technology. I am very analytical but am balanced by a strong creative side. Those two things make me good at graphic and website design, and advertising. It's a field I love and it's the balance to nature in my Libra scales.
That's plenty of "I"s, now it's about you. Most of all you need to be you. You don't need to wear makeup, your natural beauty is what will attract me the most. Tousled hair is such a turn on as is being comfortable with your body. All people are different and unique so you feel the beauty of yourself. You love the outdoors and aren't afraid to get dirty or play in the rain, you like to having fun and laughing. You like to keep a neat home but not pristine and sometimes like to sit and watch tv, but otherwise you like to get things done, go for a walk or head out to do something. And, you may or may not like to cook, but you do appreciate someone who does, though like to try a lot of foods. You also have close friends that you like to hang out with. You need your own independence and see yourself as an equal to me. You dislike when someone approaches me rather than you assuming typical gender roles. You're over all that and think it should have died in the 50s. You also like to work and don't expect anyone to pay your way. Your independence, openness and confidence makes you a valued person at whatever you do. You also have an inquisitive side that likes to learn things and talk about them (you might even be pretty geeky). I do find geeky women very attractive, intelligence is important. Also, and I guess I never needed to mention this, but you are affectionate. You'd like it if I come up behind you and give you a hug or kiss on the neck, you like to hold hands, cuddle, and kiss.