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49 M Columbus, OH

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:23am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm your typical Libra guy, not your average Joe.

I am one of those nice guys. I pick up litter, I stop to let people out of a side street when driving, I open doors for people, I believe in fairness and trust, compromise and consideration for others. I like to listen and share. I'm inquisitive, sometimes shy, but easy going. Co-workers say I'm the most interesting person they know, but I find them interesting as well, so I don't know what the novelty is...I have lots of friends who are just like me. But, I wouldn't consider myself an "average guy", I've been called a" nature boy", which is more fitting. I love the outdoors and being part of the wildness, whether just walking deer trails or tent camping. I'm not a big sports fan but I do enjoy soccer, especially on a Saturday or Sunday morning at a pub for breakfast. Lately, I've taken up throwing darts and hope to get on a league this year.

I consider myself a person who is very awake and aware of "us" on this rock floating through space. I'm not a fan of stigmas or stereotyping people and I believe everyone is equal. Everyone. On the day to day side of things, I have always worked in an office and fully enjoy technology. I am very analytical but am balanced by a strong creative and emotional side.

That's plenty of "I"s, now it's about you. Most of all you need to be you. You don't need to wear makeup, your natural beauty is what will attract me the most. Tousled hair is such a turn on as is being comfortable with your body. All people are different and unique so you feel the beauty of yourself. You love the outdoors and aren't afraid to get dirty or play in the rain, you like to having fun and laughing. You like to keep a neat home but not pristine and sometimes like to sit and watch tv, but otherwise you like to get things done, go for a walk or head out to do something. And, you may or may not like to cook, but you do appreciate someone who does. You also have close friends that you like to hang out with. You need your own independence. You dislike when someone approaches me rather than you assuming typical gender roles. You're over all that and think it should have died in the 50s. You also like to work and don't expect anyone to pay your way. Your independence, openness and confidence makes you a valued person at whatever you do. You also have an inquisitive side that likes to learn things and talk about them (you might even be pretty geeky). I do find geeky women very attractive, intelligence is important. Also, and I guess I never needed to mention this, but you are affectionate. You'd like it if I come up behind you and give you a hug or kiss on the neck, you like to hold hands, cuddle, and kiss.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a professional graphic designer and working as an interactive programmer in the advertising field. Besides that I'm just trying to enjoy every day that comes along.
I’m really good at
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Cooking, graphic design, Photoshop, Illustrator, InDesign, web design, learning new things, remembering useless facts (well, not always useless), listening, being physically aware, and great at building bonfires.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh, my eyes (brown) or hair (long).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mostly I read cookbooks or books on cooking; graphic design books (logo design, theory, techniques); and I'm a sucker for coffee-table books, like books on swords, history, science, and mythology, y'know those bargain books at B&N. In my past I read and absorbed fantasy novels particularly ones by Michael Moorcock (why isn't there an Elric movie yet?) and Anne McCaffery; and I have good sized collection of books on the occult, the psychedelic movement, and herbalism.

Movies: I'm a fan action movies, romantic films, the new graphic novel to film movies, as well as superhero movies, Jeff Goldblum films, and thief and spy movies (Italian Job, Enemy of the State, etc.). and I'm a sucker for college-type movies (American Pie). My favorite
movie of all time is probably The Mummy or The Three Musketeers (the one with Kiefer Sutherland, Charlie Sheen, Oliver Platt, and Chris O'Donnell.) Action movies get my muscles twitching. I like Jet li films, the Fast & Furious series, all of Highlander, and anything with Jason Statham. Actually, I'll pretty much watch anything.

TV: I love the Discover, National Geographic, Syfy channels. Sherlock Holmes, Vikings, Supernatural, Northern a Exposure, Twin Peaks, Dragonball Z, Salem, True Blood, any Marvel or DC comic-based show, Dr. Who, Star Trek Next get the picture.

Music: My musical tastes are anything but what's popular. I love the Beatles (and the remixes) and Jethro Tull. I like English folk music and world percussion... drumming makes me dance. I liked the grunge movement with Nirvana, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam. I'm not a big fan of classical music though I get carried away by Vivaldi's Four Seasons. For modern music I'm mostly an album-oriented person (hey, I grew up in the 70s) and rarely listen to my iPod on shuffle. Favorite album of all time: Jethro Tull's "Songs From The Woods".

Food: Anything but potatoes, I'm very allergic to potatoes, like anaphylactic allergic. I like all cuisines but am particularly fond of Cajun/Creole, Latino, and eastern European comfort food (my family's ancestry is Czech). However, I do love a good pizza, wings, and general pub food. Obviously, I'm an omnivore and a very serious carnivore. Vegetarians, you're cool and all, but I don't get you. I'm a big fan of beer, particularly, India pale ales and sours. I do also like wine at times, a nice grapefruity Sauvignon blanc being my favorite. I don't drink much hard liquor, but I do make amazing mojitos.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm a very resourceful person so, besides the natural resources...

love and affection
my iPhone
a sharp knife
My glasses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The diversity of life on earth; natural phenomena; the inter-behavior of people, animals, chemicals, foods, patterns; projects at work; what to cook next; what to eat next; people around me; why we can't walk around naked; why people aren't more considerate of others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hoping to go to Science Club (cool geeks and beer), chillin' watching a movie or just heading to my favorite bar (Bob's Bar, The Cultural Hub of the Midwest) with friends or make new ones.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My teeth are permanently stained by a medication taken in my childhood, tetracycline, not because I don't take care of my teeth. Sorry, I just can't afford veneers. Maybe I need to date a dentist ;)

Because of that I'm very non-judgmental towards anyone else.
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