I am one of those nice guys. I pick up litter, I stop to let people out of a side street when driving, I open doors for people, I believe in fairness and trust, compromise and consideration. I laugh at stupid jokes and crack myself up with puns and dorky wit (a light wheat beer). Co-workers say I'm the most interesting person they know, but I find them interesting as well, so I don't know what the novelty is...I have lots of friends who are just like me. I'm not a bro or brah; more of a Dude (I even bowl). I feel deeply and wear my heart on my sleeve, sometimes that's good sometimes bad. I'm not a big sports fan but I do enjoy soccer, especially on a Saturday or Sunday morning at a pub for breakfast. I'm also darts fan; watching, playing for fun, on a league, and the occasional tournament. But, I do watch and cheer for local sports teams, too.
Other things I like to do include cooking, I'm a very good cook and lean toward Mexican/Tex-Mex, Italian, Cajun/Creole, and eastern European cuisines. Columbus is a great city for food and I like trying new restaurants and going to all the local festivals like the Arts Festival, Comfest, Dublin Irish Festival, Festival Latino, and smaller neighborhood events. I like going to concerts, whether small venues or music festivals, and art openings and events. So, while I like to be active, I also own a home and I like (have to) to do things around the house, which seems never ending. Going out gets expensive, too, so I just like to hang around home, as well; I have a great porch for drinks or brunch or just to lounge with my cat and listen to the neighborhood.
That's plenty of "I"s, now it's about you. Most of all you need to be you. You don't need to wear makeup, your natural beauty is what will attract me the most. Tousled hair is such a turn on as is being comfortable with your body. All people are different and unique so you feel the beauty of yourself. You love the outdoors and aren't afraid to get dirty or play in the rain, you like to having fun and laughing. You like to keep a neat home but not pristine and sometimes like to sit and watch tv, but otherwise you like to move, go for a walk or head out to do something. And, you may or may not like to cook, but you do appreciate someone who does. You also have close friends that you like to hang out with. You need your own independence. You dislike when someone approaches me rather than you assuming typical gender roles. You're over all that and think it should have died in the 50s. You also like to work and don't expect anyone to pay your way. Your independence, openness and confidence makes you a valued person at whatever you do. You also have an inquisitive side that likes to learn things and talk about them (you might even be pretty geeky). I do find geeky women very attractive, intelligence is important. Also, and I guess I never needed to mention this, but you are affectionate. You'd like it if I come up behind you and give you a hug or kiss on the neck, you like to hold hands, cuddle, and kiss. If this is you, we'll have fun.