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35 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:22am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Haha! Here we all are on OK Cupid, looking for something.

San Francisco native. I've lived plenty of other places, but I keep coming back to the bay - it just feels like home. After over a decade of living in SF, I just moved to West Oakland, and it's treating me well.

I'm still learning about all the best places to go eat and drink in the East Bay, so if you'd like to show me one of your favorite spots, I'm totally game.

If it's important to you: ENFP- but really close to ENFJ. Something like that.
What I’m doing with my life
Graphic Designer by day. It's not a bad living.

Creative projects fuel my life: making art, making music, doing lots of weird performance stuff, throwing elaborately planned events in abandoned spaces. Right now I'm planning out a graphic novel and animated series.

I'm passionate about what I do; I love the people I collaborate with, and I'm excited about making things.
On to the next project!
I’m really good at
Explosions, long drum solos, jump kicking, pirate songs, nun-chucks, and other awesome stuff.
—> And this.<—
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall, glasses, dimples. Often in that order.

Just had a friend use a tape measure – not lying about my height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh yeah, stuff! You like stuff? I like stuff too! OMG We have so much in common!

I guess I'll mention a few things:
• Music: Delta Blues, Garage, Surf, Indie, New/No Wave, Punk, Balkan
• Books: Italo Calvino, Gladwell, Hesse, Strange & Norrel, the Russians, nonfiction, Joseph Campbell. Currently working my way through Moby Dick.
• Podcasts: Rome, Radiolab, TED, Philosophy Bites, British History
• Food: Everything. I eat meat, but I can cook veggie too. I'm down for learning new vegetarian recipes, or any recipes, if you got 'em.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
• Hypercubes. To the point of distraction.
• Learning about writing plots and character development.
• Social justice, gentrification, where I fit in with all of that, and how I can make an positive impact on my immediate community.
• Planning long backpacking trips in the Sierras.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My screen name is a reference to Star Wars, but I got it wrong and now I can't change it. Kessel Run in under 12 parsecs, not Kettle Run! (This is embarrassing on two levels: That I am making a nerdy Star Wars reference, and that I didn't even get it right).

I sniff glue. Wait, no, that's not something I'll admit. I take it back.

I was certified as, and worked as, a massage therapist when I was in my early 20s. I probably shouldn't have said that.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Let's hang out and see if we have any chemistry or electricity between us. Maybe let's see if we have some other sciences too, like mixology or biology or geography.

Also if you'd like to go bicycling, hiking, or get out of town together for a bit. I Like being outside.