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42 Enumclaw, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:54pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on law school
Sales / Marketing
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATE!!! Found my anchors. Dance card is full, but possibilities are endless. Feel free to reach out to me in case I haven't messaged you, if you're poly, or open to poly

Warning: I've been told my profile reads like a sandwich - narcissism / self deprecating sarcasm / narcissism. I say if you can't have fun, what's the point? Fin....

I've been told I'm 'amazing', that I'm 'kind of a big deal', and that I'm 29 in all the ways it matters. I identify as poly. NSPP. I read. I write. I watch movies of all types. I have a passion for history, 'If you don't know, and understand, history, you're bound to repeat its mistakes'.

I have old sensibilities. Really old. For written history, however accurate you think it might be, the Bible shows an awful lot of what would be considered 'alternative' relationships...poly, concubines (extra marital girlfriends), etc...and yet Christian people seem to be the most outspoken in outrage against living similarly.

I enjoy a great spell check (you know who you are, thanks). I am just like everyone else, a conglomeration of many ideas and actions which are at times seemingly in conflict.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What am I doing with my life...I work hard, I play hard. I'm opening my fourth major business venture. My family is my number one priority, then business, then my Harley. Then everything else.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation. Logistical planning with limited information. Research. Knots. Making logical leaps. Construction. Intuition.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People say they notice my eyes or my ass. I think I get noticed because I'm really really ridiculously good looking...ha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: anything Orson Scott Card or e.e elliot. Movie: Dead Poets Society, Princess Bride, the Avengers and Amazing Spiderman. T.V.: haven't had broadcast in 10 years, but the internet brings me Dexter and SOA, so I'm happy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never do without:

° sex
° books, electronic or bound
° cozy bed
° hot showers
° great conversation
° cuddling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend an inordinate amount of time thinking about too many things, mainly the inter-connectivity of everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday time varies...usually I'm doing something. With someone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't admit to anything...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you're bored
- can hold up half a conversation
- not put off by a forward person
- you can spell fairly well