What I'm looking for in a woman who I so happen to be friends with is simple: Someone who is energetic and has a smile to brighten up any day. It would be great if you're a fan of gymming. And while staying in the house is fun, my ideal female friend likes going to art museums and seeing musicals and comedy clubs.
For a relationship beyond friend, (get out that notepad ladies!) I would want the same as above, but also: affectionate, likes to talk about politics, (more fun if we are on different idealogies!) comfortable in her own skin, thinks going to a convention is fun, enjoys the occasional video game from time to time, and of course, is wonderfully depraved behind closed doors.