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41 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 26
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Sales / Marketing
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I love music and have played piano since I was five. It is my first language. I could read notes before words!

I have shared custody of two wonderful kids. They visit about once a month. I also have a job, car, roof over my head, circle of friends, all that standard stuff.

I am seeking for a woman who is sensible, grateful, can easily laugh at the world, and yet knows when it is time to be serious. I appreciate novelty, humor, improvisation, and optimism in others.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I enjoy being a dad who learns from my kids and as much as they learn from me. I spend part of my time playing and teaching piano. For many years I played in a band. It was a long, strange, trip but I got out while the getting was good! I currently work in software sales for the aviation industry. (I don't fly airplanes, though, sorry.)

I am an empathetic person. I always try to put myself in other people's shoes and imagine what it might be like to look out from their eyes. I avoid easy answers and know that most hotly debated topics are much more complicated than the average person would lead you to believe. I try to instill the same values in my kids. I think so far, they are very well balanced!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Answering my kids' many questions about the world. Playing piano. Detecting B.S. I am the guy who will point out the bright side if the whole room is complaining. On the flip side, I will speak up on behalf of a crowd if we are being treated unfairly!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Martian Chronicles, Dandelion Wine. Still Life With Woodpecker. Just Another Roadside Attraction, The Tailor of Panama, The Bachman Books. Sphere, Sarum.

TV: Parks and Recreation, Freaks and Geeks, Arrested Development. Wilfred, Colbert Report, Daily Show, Portlandia, Dr Who, Louie. C-Span. Wilfred, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black.

The Grateful Dead, Roger Waters, Pink Floyd, Radiohead, The Black Keys, Tom Petty, Mark Knopfler, Feist, Van Halen, The Shins, Allman Brothers, Jimmy Cliff, The Band, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Piano, guitar, silent time, my 2 wonderful children! Vietnamese soup. (pho)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If the universe is really a complex computer program.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting together with friends for dinner. I might be at a club jamming and enjoying a good beer or two. i have Friday and Sat off, so Thursday is really my "Friday".
You should message me if
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You are exactly cool enough for school. You are lighthearted, sensible, and a bit witty. You have no problems expressing your opinions openly. You are interested and interesting! I am not necessarily looking for someone like myself. I have been living with myself forever. Someone who has opposite superpowers would compliment things nicely!