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40 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 31–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:45pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am finally taking some time to look for someone special to share life with. I love music and have played piano since I was five. It is my first language. I could read notes before words! I appreciate novelty, humor, improvisation, and optimism.

I have shared custody of two wonderful kids. They visit about once a month.

I am looking for a woman who is sensible, grateful for what she has, can easily laugh at the world, but yet knows when it is time to be serious. Someone down for a spontaneous road trip would be a plus.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being a dad who learns from my kids and as much as they learn from me. Playing and teaching piano. For many years I played in a band. It was a long, strange, trip but I got out while the getting was good! I currently work in software sales for the aviation industry. (I don't fly airplanes, though, sorry.)

I am an empathetic person. I always try to put myself in other people's shoes and imagine what it might be like to look out from their eyes. I try to instill the same values in my kids. I think so far, they are very well balanced!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Answering my kids' many questions about the world. Playing piano. Detecting B.S. I am the guy who, if the whole room is complaining, will bring up the bright side. On the flip side of the same coin, I will speak up on behalf of a crowd if we are being treated unfairly!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ray Bradbury Martian Chronicles, Dandelion Wine. Tom Robbins: Still Life With Woodpecker. The Bachman Books. Sphere, Sarum.

Parks and Recreation, Freaks and Geeks, Arrested Development. Wilfred, Colbert Report, Daily Show, Portlandia, Dr Who, Louie. C-Span. Wilfred, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black.

The Grateful Dead, Roger Waters, Pink Floyd, Radiohead, Mark Knopfler, Van Halen, the Shins, Allman Brothers, Dave Mathews Band, The Band, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Piano, guitar, silent time, my 2 wonderful children! Vietnamese soup. (pho)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If the universe is really a complex computer program.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting together with friends for dinner, maybe some jamming, and a good beer or two. i have Friday and Sat off, so Thursday is really my "Fri".
You should message me if
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I am hoping to find the one woman who is exactly cool enough for school. She is lighthearted, sensible, and a bit witty. She has no problems expressing her opinions openly. She is interested and interesting! I am not necessarily looking for someone like myself. I have been living with myself forever. Someone who has opposite superpowers would compliment things nicely!