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41 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:15pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am finally taking some time to look for someone special to share life with. I love music and have played piano since I was five. It is my first language. I could read notes before words!

I have shared custody of two wonderful kids. They visit about once a month.

I am looking for a woman who is sensible, grateful for what she has, can easily laugh at the world, but yet knows when it is time to be serious. I appreciate novelty, humor, improvisation, and optimism in others.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being a dad who learns from my kids and as much as they learn from me. Playing and teaching piano. For many years I played in a band. It was a long, strange, trip but I got out while the getting was good! I currently work in software sales for the aviation industry. (I don't fly airplanes, though, sorry.)

I am an empathetic person. I always try to put myself in other people's shoes and imagine what it might be like to look out from their eyes. I try to instill the same values in my kids. I think so far, they are very well balanced!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Answering my kids' many questions about the world. Playing piano. Detecting B.S. I am the guy who will bring up the bright side if the whole room is complaining. On the flip side, I will speak up on behalf of a crowd if we are being treated unfairly!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Martian Chronicles, Dandelion Wine. Still Life With Woodpecker. Just Another Roadside Attraction, The Tailor of Panama, The Bachman Books. Sphere, Sarum.

TV: Parks and Recreation, Freaks and Geeks, Arrested Development. Wilfred, Colbert Report, Daily Show, Portlandia, Dr Who, Louie. C-Span. Wilfred, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black.

The Grateful Dead, Roger Waters, Pink Floyd, Radiohead, Tom Petty, Mark Knopfler, Van Halen, The Shins, Allman Brothers, , The Band, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Piano, guitar, silent time, my 2 wonderful children! Vietnamese soup. (pho)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If the universe is really a complex computer program.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting together with friends for dinner, maybe some jamming, and a good beer or two. i have Friday and Sat off, so Thursday is really my "Fri".
You should message me if
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I am hoping to find the one woman who is exactly cool enough for school. She is lighthearted, sensible, and a bit witty. She has no problems expressing her opinions openly. She is interested and interesting! I am not necessarily looking for someone like myself. I have been living with myself forever. Someone who has opposite superpowers would compliment things nicely!