I'm finding myself currently at a crossroads. Many life changing
events have happened over the past few months which have caused me
to think about a lot of things. I'm not quite ready to share all of
them yet. I'm still finalizing some of the ideas and such.
One of those is the ability to let go, to go with the flow. I am by
no means an expert at it, but I have made serious progress very
recently and it's paid off fairly nicely.
Another of those things is the need for change. Not only in the US,
but the world alike. This one has been solidifying for the past few
years or so. It's one of the reasons that I went back to school and
pursued double majors in sociology
because I feel that change has to happen at the social level and in
order to do that, I have to understand society. Spanish
purely because it's
something I enjoy. I'd like to learn some more languages at some
point as well.
Aside from that I'm still in the process of seeking a new job.
Preferably something doesn't exploit other people. I do understand
how the game is played though and I realize that I may have to play
it in order to get ahead of it and change the rules. I do love my
current job though, but make no mistake it sheds no kind of light
as to who I am whatsoever.
I've also been re-establishing myself as a halfway decent cook. So
if you have any recipes you want to share, send them my way.
A trend I've been noticing lately on here has been a contradiction
in "looking fors" I see a lot of people who have selected that they
are looking for someone who must be single, while at the same time
selecting that they are looking for "new friends" or "long distance
pen pals" or "activity partners". I noticed this one day and said
to myself, "well shit, non of those should really need a
pre-requisite on status. Now I can see where wanting the person to
be single kind of matters for those who have the dating options or
even the casual sex option selected. Speaking personally though,
whether I'm single or not doesn't change the fact that if we click,
I'm gonna be the best damn friend I can be. Maybe OKCupid should
revamp this section somehow. I have some ideas, but they have
people that get paid to do that sort of thing.
Another thing that chaps my ass; pictures. Last time I checked it
says your pictures should be just of you. You have a 2 or 3 out of
10 pics with other people in them, fine, but all of your pics? Come
Here's another thing. If you are going to judge me just because of
the things I choose to share on here, you might as well move on.
You can try to put me under whatever label, or into whatever box
you choose to. I guarantee though that you will fail. So as to not
waste your time, if this is you, keep it moving.