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44 Austin, TX Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Used up
Trying to quit
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm really 49, not 45. I'm tired of everybody else lying about their age, and still passing me over because I'm 'old'. Fuck that. And fuck you if you think that. And because I doubt anybody reads this shit anymore, I'll be quite happy if somebody references it.

That aside, I'm generally happy. A friend once said I'm 'a sensitive badass'. I'm rock and roll and all grown up; Bohemian, yet responsible. Carefree, yet cautious. So: laid back Austin style, cosmopolitan outlook.

I put the punctuation outside the quotes. 'Cause it looks right.

Grew up all over the east coast, literally, Maine to Florida & places in between, with bikers and hippies and pirates and musicians and fisherman and artists and politicians and rich and poor and just plain folks. I'm a techie, traveled around some doing it. Moved to Austin in '99, been here since.

I love my daughter, my family, rock and roll (and lots of it), books, movies and my dog and cat. I like riding my motorcycle, grillin', fishing', philosophy, art(!), nature and loud, melodic rock and roll played on actual instruments by real human beings.

I don't much like many Finns besides Huck.

I enjoy hanging in out of the way bars (Liberty, White Horse, Horseshoe, etc.), poetry, occasionally fishing, BBQ. Not a sports nut, but I like baseball & football during playoffs. Good food, good cheer, lucky toasts, great nights, friendly smiles, a sparkle of the eyes...

I'm pretty damned liberal, but I've had some pretty healthy helpings of common sense. Gun-totin', Wendy-hatin', conspiracy-theorist Tea Party folks, we'll probably not get along. Sorry, gotta draw a line somewhere...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for those things good for my soul.
Writing songs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing. Stories. Bad. Poem. Bad.
Kissing you like your life depended on it.
KILLER Sicilian red sauce.
Deadly etoufee.
Corpse-like Gumbo?
Live Lobster Racing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The drool buckets. Always a conversation starter...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
OK, so I'm a southern child of the 60's, 70's & 80's... the list of art & culture that I like now is too long to write and changes often... Suffice it to say that if you like Hunter, Dinosaur Jr., Henry Miller, Chinatown, REM, Paul Bowles, The Right Stuff, BB King, Bukowski, the Glimmer Twins, Dazed & Confused, Voltaire, Waylon & Shooter, Kandinski, The Big Chill, Rabelais, Joe Strummer, Rimbaud, Lebowski, BBQ, sushi, cold beer good wine and a good glass of whiskey at the end of the night -- we'll get along just fine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Exile on Main Street
My kid
My dog & my cat
A song in my heart
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fender or Gibson? Gretsch or Richenbacher? Marshall or... Fender. Funny how it comes back around... whatever else...
The sacred and the profane.
What exactly it is that repels all women from responding to the most innocuous message...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either I'm doing something cool with my daughter, like going to a great movie, or minigolf, hiking, fishing, or just hanging watching movies and eating pizza, or I'm checking out some band, somewhere, thinking about the higher qualities of love, evidenced by some serious booty shakin'...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Earth and sky and sea; sun, moon and stars; wood, vale, prairie, desert, beach & swamp...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
your fave song is Sway
you love old out of the way bars
you've got: sly, style, slink -- no stank!
you know when its time to straighten up and fly right
you're kinda sick of this online crap and wanna meet a cool guy who'll treat ya right