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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 30
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Under remodeling <3 feel free to message me.

Hi! I'm kitty, I'll try to keep this as casual as possible. Quick run down, I'm poly, kinky, and queer. I like reading, video games,(modern) board games, and role playing, I'd like to get out more but I'm more interested in doing so with someone than alone. I'm a feminist and a member of the green party, I hold my feminist beliefs dear and half of my degree is focused on academic feminist theory, but I don't talk much about politics outside of it.

Less quick run down time! Don't worry about reading this, but if you're interested in the nitty gritty about me feel free to, that's what it's here for! :)

I tend to play roguelikes and MMORPGS, I love socializing and they both provide that in their own way I suppose. I also play RPGs of all sorts, I prefer CRPGs but they tend to be a lot less common. I love urban fantasy and like scifi, and these tend to be reflected in what I read and watch. I'm currently in a (n)World of Darkness game as a mage and I love the themes of hubris and secrecy in a modern world. I'll get more into my reading interests down there, in that spot specifically for that.

Board games. Oh god I love them. I host, or intend to host, a board game night. I've hosted it in the past, and I intend to in the future, this will probably say in the future even if it happens because I'll forget to update it. Feel free to message me about it. Anyway, I love hidden role games, The Resistance for example, and I like playing games like Ticket to Ride with bluffing and political maneuvering. I also adore Sentinels of the Multiverse. I love that board games can provide a social environment that doesn't have to cost money every time, provides new experiences (hopefully every time!), and lets people talk during it without being hushed down.

Okay, sexuality, I'm polyamorous, and I try to be non-hierarchical in my polyamory. I don't always succeed, and it's harder with new relationship energy but it's something that I try to sustain. I'm interested in women, cis or trans, and I'd probably be okay with non-binary femmes. I'm also a sub, I think, basically assume that I am. I may be a switch, but that takes time to bring out of me and it can be easily reversed. Easier just to think of me as a sub. Look me up on fetlife if you want my whole fetish list, or if you just want to see pictures I can't put on okcupid, I'm kittykai on there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Please don't spoil things, I may be taking a break with any books/movies/shows! Also these are in no particular order.

Books: Dresden Files, Codex Alera, Luna, When it Changed(short story), The Vampire the Masquerade clan novels, Ender's Game

Online Stories: Tales of MU, The Saga of Tuck, The Darkrealms Universe

Movies: Breakfast Club, Star Wars(IV-VI), Thelma and Louise, Clue, The Fifth Element, Serenity, Hard Candy, Repo! The Genetic Opera

Shows: Buffy, Angel, Pretty Little Liars(don't judge!), Battlestar Galactica, Doctor Who, Orange is the New Black, House of Cards, Once Upon a Time, Firefly, Community

Music: Zombie Girl, Emilie Autumn, The Birthday Massacre, Angelspit, Ayria, The Creep Show, Delain, Horrorpops, Krypteria, Mankind is Obsolete, One-Eyed Doll
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On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, playing video games, netflix binging, chatting online, out dancing if it's the first Friday. Really depends on what I'm interested in at that point. My interests tend to fluctuate between reading, video games, and netflix on a several month basis. Chatting online tends to carry over between them though, I love talking to people regardless of the medium.
You should message me if
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Try it. Can't hurt, can it? Here, tell me what your favorite pokemon is. Animal if you don't know or like Pokemon. Don't even need to think of a conversation starter now. Be warned if you get me going every message will be like my self-summary in length!


You're interested in board gaming and would like to see about doing so with me at some point.