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53 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 31
Indian, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you are looking to find a soul mate from a few scattered and mostly inconsequential OKC questions, you might want to click onto the next profile. If, however, you are willing to be real, and to put in the time necessary to make a human relationship work, please read on and see if we might be friends, playmates, activity partners...and then, who knows?


I am in an age of self-discovery I have not experienced since I was in my early 20s. I feel fortunate to have a stability grounded in coming from what I fancy to be good, honest peasant stock. This base, I hope, gives me the platform to dive into the artistic well, the want for self-exploration, that so characterizes San Francisco.

How I behave here – dress, play, eat, interact – would never have come off so easily in my home town of Albuquerque, New Mexico. And now, I find myself single, free to turn over rocks, look under bushes, and play with crevices in my mind.

I look for Friends/Activity partners/lovers who want to:

-- walk this magnificent city, whether it is the nature, the cityscapes or the opportunity to just people watch in crowded city corridors
-- take advantage of the Bay Area's wealth of performance art, often dirt cheap or free
-- kick a soccer ball around (always looking for players for my Sunday coed team
-- sip coffee or booze, maybe even spark up and talk literature, philosophy and just of the human condition.
What I’m doing with my life
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Professionally, I have been fortunate to seamlessly move from the corporate world – a marketing cog in the gross, unnecessary, sector of the business world (corporate law) – to the literally touchy-feely world of massage. I am lucky enough at 3 years into this new field to have established myself as a massage instructor and have built a nice little world of chair massage gigs and private clients.

Beyond work, I spend a great deal of time playing soccer, walking San Francisco, discovering new-to-me dive bars, and playing as much as possible.

I am also rediscovering a strength and sense of self. I would love to discover someone who can help me more fully realize my potential, just as I might do for her.

Now is a good time for me to get to know strong individuals, people with a good sense of themselves and the character to know that a solid relationship is built slowly: no single message from an OKC sender is going save anyone. However, building a relationship with an OKC interest could blossom into a connection to last a life time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Curly hair. Go on then, touch it
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: classics. Hawthorne, Balzac, Edora Welty, etc. There are excellent current writers, of course, such as Joyce Carrol Oates , but you can keep the whole detective genre (not that there is anything wrong with romance and detective novels, but there are just so many classics yet to be read).

Music: Nick Lowe, Aimee Mann, Lyle Lovett, Gillian Welch are among my favorites. Going to Hardly Strictly Bluegrass is one to the hightlights of my year, as is the Annual Burning Man Decompression Party in Bay View/Hunters Point.

Movies: Cannot beat almost anything Peter O'Toole in it. I also like Woody Allen and old Bogart films.

So far as food goes, well, I really enjoy a variety. I try to keep the unhealthy stuff to a minimum, but you cannot eat at Ananda Faura every night. so a nice rack of ribs can delightfully break up the monotony.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, friends, home-cooked Mexican food, pointless play, soccer, green bud.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I feel touch is such an important and neglected part of what it means to be human. We communicate through touch. We comfort. We celebrate. We console.

For many, touch is limited to sex or violence and that just is not right. We need to find our primate selves and litterally embrace each other anew.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At happy hour, playing darts, walking down a street in my neighborhood seeing things that I never noticed before.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
lots. but in one-to-one conversations
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. want to:

take a stroll up some scenic hill
play guitar in the park
trade massages
have company while you walk your dog
go to Ecstatic Dance
create art
hold hands some point, sit around naked and smoke a joint. The naked part is optional