Now on to things less important
If you are looking to discern a soulmate from a few scattered and mostly inconsequential OKC questions, you might want to click onto the next profile. If, however, you are willing to be real, and to put in the real time necessary to make any human relationship work, please read on and see if we might be friends, playmates, acticity partners...and then, who knows?
Isn’t life interesting? At 53, I am in an age of self-discovery I have not experienced since I was in my early 20s. I feel fortunate to have a stability grounded in coming from what I fancy to be good, honest peasant stock. This base, I hope, gives me the platform to dive into the artistic well, the want for self-exploration, that so characterizes San Francisco.
How I behave here – dress, play, eat, interact – would never have come off so easily in my home town of Albuquerque, New Mexico. And now, over two years removed from a 13-year marriage -- to wonderful women who just was not the right match for me -- I find myself single, free to turn over rocks, look under bushes, and play with crevices in my mind that have been long left unattended. I spent the first months post-divorce immersed in self-medication of booze and pot, but in recent months I have hit my stride.
And now, I look for Friends/Activity partners/lovers who want to:
-- walk this magnificent city, whether it is the nature, the cityscapes or the opportunity to just people watch in crowded city corridors
-- take advantage of the City and Bay Area's wealth of performance art, often dirt cheap or free
-- kick a soccer ball around (always looking for players for my Sunday coed team
-- sip coffee or booze, maybe even spark up and talk literature, philosophy and just of the human condition.