Be caught in a commonplace way.
Do all that you know, and try all that you don’t:
Not a chance must be wasted to-day!"
Lewis Carroll - The Hunting of the Snark
This whole dating thing is strange and disturbing territory for me. It's not that I'm socially inept, per se. I have plenty of friends. I don't get all weird around people with two X chromosomes. I come across as an unusual person, but within the bounds of acceptable human variation.