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31 Seattle, WA Man, Agender, Other, Genderqueer

Man, Agender, Other, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Sapiosexual, Queer, Pansexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Working on Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
To start, and to be honest and fair to any who may be interested, I am in an open relationship with Ms. ella_que_espera. She means the world to me, so if you can't dig it, maybe we can just be friends.

Baltimore boy turned Pittsburgher. Moving to Seattle mid-September.

I dig writing, painting, drawing, and reading. I've been known to wander around the city at night, meeting fellow oddballs and eating strange foods. I love punk, bluegrass, blues, and jazz( I'm not too picky about music, but it has to have balls and soul). I enjoy going to museums, libraries, and markets filled with stalls and stands.

Give me good booze, a cigarette, and a book of short fiction and I'm the happiest cat in the universe.

I'm open to just about everything. What I don't know, I'm willing to learn. And just because I don't dig something, well, it doesn't mean I'll hold it against you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring out where the next path may take me, and enjoying the trip.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing. Ridiculing squirrels from afar.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am not Samuel L. Jackson.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Complete Short Stories of Raymond Carver, Knockemstiff, Tropic of Cancer, Howl, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Another Country, For Whom The Bell Tolls, Notes From The Underground, Catch-22, Confederacy of Dunces, Everything That Rises Must Converge, Choke, The Portable Bukowski, Junkie, Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee, The Crumb Coffee Table Book, , Cathedral, The Poems of Shelly, A People's History of The United States, Moby Dick, The Wasteland, This is How You Lose Her, Jesus' Son

Music: The Dead Boys, Joy Division, Tom Waits, Miles Davis, Fela Kuti, Devo, The Cramps, The Sonics, Link Wray, Thelonious Monk, The Stooges, the White Stripes, Nina Simone, GG Allin and The Jabbers, Bob Mould, The Futureheads, The Smiths, Psychedelic Furs, Oingo Boingo, Charles Mingus, John Cale, Dan Deacon, Swans, Pink Anderson, Nick Drake

Movies: Citizen Kane, The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly, Harold and Maude, Pulp Fiction, Dead Alive, The Forbidden Zone, Blue Velvet, Meaning of Life, Duck Soup, The Great Dictator, Dirty Harry, Casablanca, Plan 9 From Outer Space, Pink Flamingos, Repo Man, The Killer, Fight Club, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Battle Royale, Whiplash, Magnolia, Breathless, Putney Swoop, The Thin Blue Line

Breaking Bad, The Daily Show, Last Week Tonight, Frontline, Vice, Fargo, The Wire, The Newsroom, True Detective, Arrested Development, Mr. Show, The State, Portlandia, It's Always Sunny, MST3K, Cowboy Bebop, Nova

Green papaya salad
Soup dumplings
Peruvian chicken
Lomo Saltado
NYC pizza
Philly cheesesteaks
Cuban sandwiches
Cafe su da
Fried Green Tomatoes
Steamed Crabs
and everything else.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• A Book
• A Notebook
• A Pen
• Pack of smokes
• Fire
• Oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophy (absurdism), politics, literary techniques, homeless folk, the disappearance of Arabers, art, women, coffee, friends, train rides, my cat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hunting the American dream. Usually, with a head full of booze, a poem ruminating through my mind, and a collapsible baton in my mitts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I daydream that I can dance and sing. And sometimes, when I'm alone, I dance and sing.
You should message me if
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If you'd like to talk, ask questions, yell at me, engage in competitive haikuing, or just wanna ask the time.