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31 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Time to write about myself I take it... what to say? what not to say? ;-)

I'm sort of this juxtaposition of a very outgoing, fun & exuberant person and then a somewhat introverted, super mellow and laid back person. I'm very honest, and value the good, real, honest people in my life.

I consistently have my hands in many projects and I'd consider myself quite the talented multi-tasker. I'm an Acupuncturist, DJ, Artist, and Event Producer. Many different projects and I work my hardest to excel at all of them.

Sometimes I'm quite sassy, and I try to always say what's on my mind, I never lie. Occasionally those traits get me into a pickle now and then, but I usually quickly find, that the people I can't be honest with aren't really the people I need around anyhow. I'm a big fan of Einstein, especially his thoughts on life and humankind, he's quite the genius in more ways than just E=mc2

Oh! and I absolutely LOVE dressing up!... from costumes and fake eyelashes to fancy dresses and high heels, I never grew out of that little princess fantasy from when I was a child, and I'm lucky my life allows me the perfect environments to be my extravagant self :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Like said above, I have many different projects / jobs that I divide my time amongst. My 'day job' is an Acupucnturist and for my 'night job' I DJ and produce events, which leaves me with quite the active social life, somewhere in the interim I'm an artist and jeweler working on launching a new brand, an alt / tattoo / pinup model and photographer.... Seriously... ALL THE THINGS. While my weekends are filled with parties, I tend to not take part in the partying aspect so much, parties become quite the different experience when you're working at them. I also completely enjoy my down time. Taking time to get out on a hike, go camping, or just chill out and have a drink and watch a movie with some good friends is equally as important. It's all about balance.
I’m really good at
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Making anything with my hands, multi-tasking, creating things, reading people and crowds (an essential to being a good DJ), procrastinating... and being brutally honest... I can't lie, and while that may be a good thing, it's probably not a good thing if you ask me a question you don't want the answer to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes and tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food - Mediterranean... La Mediterranee is one of my favorites... I'm a total foodie, (and I'm squirming at the fact I just wrote that for some reason), anyhow, I love GOOD food.

Books- I am quite the book collector, lots of psychology, religion (not religious yet fascinated by it) and medical reference books in my arsenal... Yet I've probably only read a chapter from each.

Music - I don't have the time to go on and on and on about this one... but alas, I'll try... let's see, as stated above music is a big deal to me... I'm an electronic music DJ - breaks, DnB and garage, but do my best to not listen to it recreationally. Instead the tunes on my stereo on the regular are more of the metal, rock, blues variety.

Here's the short list: TOOL, Puscifer, A Perfect Circle, Johnny Cash, Curtis Stigers, Deftones, Aphrodite, Deekline, DJ Hero, Breakzhead, F-Word, Quadrat Beat, Alan & Passhe, Umek, Stanton Warriors, Krafty Kuts, Elite Force, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Black Sabbath, Judas Priest, Led Zeppelin, Pepper, Sublime, Adele, Lyrics Born, Atmosphere...... it goes on and on and on and on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
:sigh: iPhone
the atmosphere, freedom and creativity of Burning Man (I just had Burning Man here before, but realized perhaps that the festival itself I can live without, but what it means, what it represents and what it creates in me is something I could NEVER do without)
Sleeping in (I am so not a morning person)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The end of the world and other existential questions about reality and life...

and what I might do this weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably out in SF... and probably DJing, or on the lucky weekends someone flew me to another city to DJ there... however, it's friday night right now, and Im filling this out, so... I guess you really can never tell can you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never changed a baby's diaper... and have no intention to, ever... unless one day it's my own baby's... but even then, I'm still gonna pull for not doing it ;-)
You should message me if
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You can write a whole message using correct grammar and spelling. Seriously.

Oh... and maybe you like lighting things on fire, staying out till dawn, dancing, and are an honest, down to earth, grounded person.

Other things I have a strong affinity towards, in no particular order:
-A well manicured beard
-Neck tattoos

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