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30 Chicago, IL Woman


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  • Ages 38-59
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Last online
Jun 4
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Fiery, strong minded, "shoulda been a redhead" gal seeking a passioniate, focused equal for (hopefully) the real deal, long term, lighting striking, movie romance, happily ever after. No pressure ;)

A little about me--Ever since I finished undergrad I've been pursuing a career as a singer, with a side of acting, everywhere from Charlotte to Chicago to New York City until I realized that NYC was eating my soul and I needed a break. I'm about to finish my first year of grad school and have developed a pretty strong interest in pursuing a career in opera along the way. I'm finally at a place where I feel I can really settle into life and, like all of you, I'd rather not do that alone.

As a singer, grad school focuses mostly opera and classical, which I'm fairly amazing at, but outside of school I'm also a jazz girl with a small side of musical theater. I love the mountains, brisk weather and the smell of shoe stores, bakeries and oranges, I'm rather conservative, politically speaking, but I totally reject the idea that has to mean I'm not sexy, awesome and kind hearted because I absolutely am all of those things.

I'm looking for a strong, intelligent partner. A man with drive and an "old school sensibility" that wants a passionate relationship. All the rest is pure chemistry, which we won't know if we have until we meet so let's get started!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm about to finish my first year of grad school & now I'm readying myself for 2 opera summer programs.
I’m really good at
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singing, seeing well in the dark & retaining truck loads of classic Hollywood trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I tend to say exactly whats on my mind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to read autobiographies, primarily of classic Hollywood stars, as well as the typical romance novel every now and then. I love classic film and almost any movie set in the 1930's/40's. TV-wise I'm currently into Scandal, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Downton Abbey, all the CSI's & Law & Order's, Criminal Minds and Mad Men. I listen to all kinds of music but probably enjoy jazz, of the Ella Fitzgerald variety, and singer/songwriter types, of the Colbie Caillat variety, the most. I'll give you fair warning though, I've recently really gotten into opera. Don't be so quick to judge! It's actually pretty interesting. My diet is starch heavy and vegetable light and yet I'm alive and reasonably thin. Gasp!
The six things I could never do without
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Diet Coke
Fall/cold weather
Peanut butter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When my next big break is coming, both personal & professional.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to try to go out, explore & meet new people but on nights when I can't find something of interest I'll stay in & stick my nose in a book or feed my Netflix addiction.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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No sir. You aren't gonna get the good stuff that easily.
You should message me if
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you have an eHarmony mentality despite the OKCupid atmosphere. If you don't know what that means, start at having a shirt on in your profile picture & work your way up from there.