Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved to Maine from Alaska in 2007. That was quite an adjustment.
If I were to get "stuck" somewhere after Alaska Maine would be a
close second. Thats a tough call. I mean Spain, Fiji or the
Marquesas islands would not suck either.
It has taken me some time to feel real ready to date. For the last
couple of years Ive been up to my eyeballs studying. That is all
done. It is a relief to get my life back. I've discovered recently
I really am emotionally available now. I crave intimacy. I would
really like to be close with a really fine woman.
As a younger man I had the opportunity to do a lot of travel. In
ten years have been all over Asia, Australia central and North
America. Ive climbed to the top of the Himalayas and explored Mayan
jungle ruins. All before I was thirty five. I'm glad I got to do
all of that. I have lots and lots of stories to share. Now I am
settling into doing a great job as super awesome Dad No mid life
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My main focus is turning my two boys into fine young men. I am
working on my house a lot too. That is coming out great. Work is
kind of important too. But not overly so. Does that make sense?
Lately I have rekindled a long lost love of the sport of Ultimate
Frisbee. I am assistant coach of my Son's "Disc" team. This is
really turning into a sea change in our household. My kids are
quickly becoming as passionate about it as I was as a younger man.
THAT has been incredibly rewarding!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at Carpentry. I love making things and breathing
love and life into new and old. I have built many many houses and
boats. I am a good communicator and writer. I am very perceptive.
Which is why I give great massages (and other things too)... I
notice things. I ask questions and really listen to the answers, I
have a gift for setting people at ease and drawing them out.
Conversation is an Art I am good at. We may end up in really deep
conversation one minute, or rolling around laughing our ass off the
next. I am joyous and loving most of the time. Fiercely protective
of those I love. I have been through some really hard times as well
so I am not scared of confiding with you about some of the darker
passages. Life can be hard. I believe we should help each other
through it. It seems that is where the deepest bonds are formed.
Above all I am an excellent father and a really great friend. I
might just be the kindest man you have ever met. That said I am in
no way a weak person. I am kind of a renaissance man. My interests
are eclectic I have many many talents.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really don't know! My eyes? I seem to be able to stop people with
them. Or maybe my positive outlook. That I am funny and kind.
Perhaps it is my wit and charm or just that I am devastatingly
handsome (tee hee)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My gawd where to begin? My interests are way too broad to be
enumerated here. Im a big reader. An amateur beekeeper, Love live
music and have been known to leave my body while dancing to it. . I
am a wannabe foodie and an accomplished gardener.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids. My boats. Being outside. The ocean. Books. Love and
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kids. My work. My house. Finding a really fine woman to love
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with my kids, messin around at home, or out with
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
oooh I have some great jaw dropper stories, but I would have to get
to know you better first
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 38–53
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
First of all you must have a kind heart and be honest. Truly
emotionally available is another must. Long distance relationships
are not feasable for me. I am just way too busy. I want you to be
able to just drop on by.
Worldly is good. Intelligent and witty are very very attractive.
Drop dead gorgeous doesn't hurt either. Let me clarify that: Beauty
is a total package. I firmly believe there is no line where where
someones body ends and their personality or soul begins. I have met
some "objectively" beautiful women whom after I have gotten to know
them wouldn't touch. Then there are other people whose style and
personality make them utterly irresistible. So please don't be shy
about contacting me if you think we might hit it off.
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