First of all I am not an "A lister" I can't see who "likes" me. So instead of hitting that silly button reach out and talk to me I promise Iwon't bite.. unless you like that(!)....
I moved to Maine from Alaska in 2007. That was quite an adjustment. If I were to get "stuck" somewhere after Alaska Maine would be a close second. Thats a tough call. I mean Spain, Fiji or the Marquesas islands would not suck either.
It has taken me some time to feel real ready to date. For the last couple of years Ive been up to my eyeballs studying. That is all done. It is a relief to get my life back. I've discovered recently I really am emotionally available now. I crave intimacy. I would really like to be close with a really fine woman.
As a younger man I had the opportunity to do a lot of travel. In ten years have been all over Asia, Australia central and North America. Ive climbed to the top of the Himalayas and explored Mayan jungle ruins. All before I was thirty five. I'm glad I got to do all of that. I have lots and lots of stories to share. Now I am settling into doing a great job as super awesome Dad No mid life crisis here!
What I’m doing with my life
My main focus is turning my two boys into fine young men. I am
working on my house a lot too. That is coming out great. Work is
kind of important too. But not overly so. Does that make sense?
Lately I have rekindled a long lost love of the sport of Ultimate
Frisbee. I am assistant coach of my Son's "Disc" team. This is
really turning into a sea change in our household. My kids are
quickly becoming as passionate about it as I was as a younger man.
THAT has been incredibly rewarding!
I’m really good at
I'm really good at Carpentry. I love making things and breathing
love and life into new and old. I have built many many houses and
boats. I am a good communicator and writer. I am very perceptive.
Which is why I give great massages (and other things too)... I
notice things. I ask questions and really listen to the answers, I
have a gift for setting people at ease and drawing them out.
Conversation is an Art I am good at. We may end up in really deep
conversation one minute, or rolling around laughing our ass off the
next. I am joyous and loving most of the time. Fiercely protective
of those I love. I have been through some really hard times as well
so I am not scared of confiding with you about some of the darker
passages. Life can be hard. I believe we should help each other
through it. It seems that is where the deepest bonds are formed.
Above all I am an excellent father and a really great friend. I
might just be the kindest man you have ever met. That said I am in
no way a weak person. I am kind of a renaissance man. My interests
are eclectic I have many many talents.
The first things people usually notice about me
I really don't know! My eyes? I seem to be able to stop people with them. Maybe my positive outlook? Maybe That I am funny and kind. Oftentimes people say I am very well spoken and obviously intelligent. Perhaps it is my wit and charm or just that I am devastatingly handsome (tee hee).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My gawd where to begin? My interests are way too broad to be enumerated here. Im a big reader. An amateur beekeeper, Love live music and have been known to leave my body while dancing to it. . I am a wannabe foodie ,an amazing cook and an accomplished gardener.
The six things I could never do without
My kids. My boats. Being outside. The ocean. Books. Music. Intimacy and affection.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Women and how awesome they are . My kids. My work. My house.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either hanging out with my kids, messin around at home, or out with friends. sometimes even on a date!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
oooh I have some great jaw dropper stories, but I would have to get to know you better first. And you had better be sitting down.
You should message me if
First of all you must have a kind heart and be honest. Truly emotionally available is another must. Long distance relationships are not feasable for me. I am just way too busy. I want you to be able to just drop on by.
Worldly is good. Intelligent and witty are very very attractive. Drop dead gorgeous doesn't hurt either. Let me clarify that: Beauty is a total package, "Chemistry" is a continuum.. I firmly believe there is no line where where someones body ends and their personality or soul begins. I have met some "objectively" beautiful women whom after I have gotten to know them ...I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. Then there are other people whose style and personality make them utterly irresistible. So please don't be shy about contacting me if you think we might hit it off.