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  • Ages 18-36
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Not at all
Atheism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
My self-summary
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"James is one of the sweetest, most loyal intelligent men that you will ever meet. Well educated with remarkable distinctions about life and the world. He is probably the most monogamous gay man out there. An ideal match for him is a sweet, boyish and intelligent white versatile to total bottom guy under 40 who looking for the real deal. Make a friend with James and you will have a true friend and an extension of your family for life. Most of the guys out there are clueless but he is the real deal. He's a sweetheart! He is 56 but most people think that he is thirty something as he ages about 80% slower than everyone else. Say hi!:) --From his best friend

He says:

Hi, I'm James. I'm a kind, loving, sensitive guy with an eye for beauty and an appreciation for the world we live in and the amazing gifts and experiences life can bring. I was an only child, and am a bit intellectual. Sometimes I tend to be introverted but I want to be more social and have lots of wonderful people in my life. My friends make me smile. So does my dog. I'm grateful for having a loving family that gave me a perfect start in life.

I'm passionate about well-written music, our beautiful planet, our national parks, gay equality, human rights, delicious food, art, and photography. I've been a serious landscape photographer for several years now and am building my own website to showcase my work and to sell high quality prints.

I'm hoping to make new friends and to eventually find a loving partner. I appreciate intelligent youthful guys who are authentic, unaffected, sweet, kind, in shape, with a sense of humor and a touch of innocence.

A good relationship would be one in which we are equals, both love and respect the other, share interests and enjoy doing lots of things together, look forward to seeing each other, have fun in good times and support each other through difficult times, and enjoy cuddling and making love! Ideally our interests and goals would be compatible too so that we could help each other and grow together over time. The very thought of all that makes me smile!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a professional landscape photographer. I launched my website and business last year and before that I was a Silicon Valley software engineer.
I’m really good at
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Seeing beauty in all forms and places.
The first things people usually notice about me
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How young I look. I take very good care of myself, eat healthfully, get plenty of exercise and sleep, and avoid too much sun. People often think I'm still in college; lots of people think I'm in my early 30s. All the photos I have posted here were taken since 2011.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Chocolate! My favorite music is classical, especially the romantic period: Brahms, Tchaikovsky, Rachmaninoff, Gliere, Scriabin, Chopin. In popular music I enjoy oldies and well-written songs that are pretty. I love fine art and photography too. I enjoy collecting old California orange crate labels for their art and nostalgic depiction of California. Two of my favorite movies are Amadeus and The Wizard of Oz.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My pup.
Excellent food.
Living in a climate where I can enjoy the outdoors.
My camera.
Wonderful and intelligent friends.
A continual education of the world around me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the world can be a better place and how to improve my photographs and the lives of the people closest to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally at the symphony, out to dinner, or with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am shy at first but I am a great lover.
You should message me if
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you are a truly kind and intelligent person who is sincere.