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35 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25-40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Nov 24
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Mostly non-monogamous
- 6' 0" (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Average build
- Dropped out of Post grad
- Doesn’t have kids
- English (Fluently)
I can draw you, I can find delicious places to eat on the cheap, or expensive whatever the occasion. Some other things in the bed room.
I am actually a really good driver. I am good at public speaking and getting you excited or making you blush.
Jazz, Rap, Hip Hop, Rock, Hardcore, Post Punk/Hardcore, Drum n Bass, Classical, Blues, Soul, R&B, there is so much good music in the world that we will just have to listen and vibe out to it together instead of me listing it here. I am very open to all kinds of music. Bjork, Joy Division, Wu-Tang, Dipset, Miles Davis, DJ Shadow, Cibo Matto, The Funky Meters, Biggie, Helmet, old Ice Cube, Gangstarr, Pia, Merging Moon, even Kanye to Quicksand to Dinosaur Jr. to Nina Simone.
I am currently slowly reading and reflecting on the Keith Haring Journals. I just bought a volume of famous collected artist interviews by Michael Pippiat, the Francis Bacon and Frank Auerbach ones are so sick so far. Old Marvel TPB collections, history books...
I watch, or listen to, a lot of Documentaries while I paint and make art, ranging from the Mongol Empire to Mafia Heists to Famous Artist Bios to Famous Historical Leaders to War History to Food Documentaries to documentaries on Buddhism, etc...
Anthony Bourdain is kind of my hero currently. If you think he is an asshole, as many people I have met in California seem to think, I would love to talk and hear why and explain from a New Yorker stand point why I disagree hahaha. Oh and I just rewatched Princess Mononoke again recently and love that movie!
Nights at the Ocean
Things I am working on and want to see come together in the future. Painting.
How certain foods taste so perfect.
Why I can't find real Bagels in Cali (I know why, but I still think about it)
Intimacy and connection in deeply sexual ways and in totally non physical spiritual ways.
What I am grateful for.
That hilarious part of Step Brothers, oh wait that was the whole fucking movie.
How to be true to myself and make art that I believe in.
What am I going to do for fun and eat in the near future.
Being Bout it Bout it.
Traveling, traveling, and more traveling (often with projects in mind).
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