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35 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 3
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I do a lot of things. I work hard. I have talents...I like life... I am happily settled in the Bay after 8 years of being here and one final move of closure back to NYC, Oakland is home. I am an artist, I really make work make shows and make moves with my life. I also work for an amazing Enviro Non Profit as a fundraiser and designer... life is good.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making a lot of art...going to other countries to make art...working for an environmental nonprofit group...doing things...makin things happen...if I say I am going to do it...I do it. I am an artist, but not of the starving variety, I have some good things on the horizon and I would love to share with someone who has their own life going full steam...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The Force. Uni. Quoting comedy movies at inappropriate times. Finding incredibly good cheap eats in cities I have never been to. Figuring out metro systems. Embracing the moment. Exploring...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Grin or Ice Grill depending on the moment...hazel eyes...tattoos...body language.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Many, many, many, many, annnndddddd many. I live, I read, I eat, I listen, I watch and I think, enjoy, critique, and feel, and then I keep doing it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Work Play
Nice Heavy Stock Printing Paper and Micron Pens
Power Tools
Hot Showers (or Springs)
Foods from all Lands
#7 the Uni at Takara (Which if I like you I will take you out to have.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Interconnectedness, multi dimensional travel, stupid jokes and not so stupid jokes, good solar plexus piercing sarcasm, where to open a pizza joint in the Bay, where to travel next to keep making art all over the world, my place in the universe, dirty things, work, how I can use minwax on my next painting, where to find an old burnt out or decaying house to forage for materials for art making, looking into someones eyes and getting that rush when whatever we are talking about continues to be amazing and we are having a totally different conversation simultaneously in pure chemistry and attraction, Ukiyo-e prints, the floating world, war, peace, Dischord Records, Aphex Twin, Wu-Tang Forever God...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making art, eating tasty cakes, going to the movies, building with friends, drawing, enjoying zoning out because I work like crazy, Takara Sushi, and any number of other things depending on where I am...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was four I colored myself purple from head to toe and told my mom I was a grape when she came home from work...there are more private things but that is at least a funny one...she almost passed out.
You should message me if
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You are a for real down to earth human being, your head can be in the clouds or sifting through a thousand things, but you are centered and able to move consciously through life as best you can and your feet know how to be on the ground. You know who you are well enough to live an independent and somewhat drama free life. You are more or less happy with who you are, you are a responsible adult who also has a fun, wild, mischievous inner child that can play as hard as you work. You are free to be yourself in general and all that comes with. You are looking for the polar opposite of the bullshit and you are rad to hang out with... you are funny, kind of a dork, nerd out on the regular, you are thoughtful, you are witty, you are intelligent, and can act like an idiot in the right want to and you are intrigued and you want to do some Exploring...