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36 M Seattle, WA

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Last Online
Today – 4:18pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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[...] the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes 'Awww!'"
- Jack Kerouac
"On The Road"

While I enjoy the simplicity of a night at home, I do try to make the most of this city. There is always some sort of beer/chocolate/oyster/wine/food truck fest going on and I'm pretty good at finding them!

All of these, while good times, would most definitely be enhanced if I could share them with a lovely lady with an easy smile, quick wit, and a towel. (It's only the most massively useful thing an interstellar hitchhiker can have.)

So, if you'd like to enjoy some fun activities, laughs and sparkling conversation, then let me know.
What I’m doing with my life
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New job as of late. Professional sausage maker. I've wanted to work on policy issues since I had a job at a homeless shelter and saw that, while it did a great job of helping rebuild their lives, it wasn't addressing the issues that caused homelessness in the first place.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
bicycling! In early September, I rode in the NYC Century. I'm from L.A. but didn't own a car until I was 32. I like to be contrarian that way. Ironically, it was my work on a clean air campaign at the Port of L.A. that finally forced me to buy a car.

Also, I've been practicing yoga for 12 years now. I prefer vinyasa/flow most times but an occasional kundalini to bliss out is always good. However, it wasn't until I started 90X this past year that I practiced on a fairly regular basis.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile? I don't know. I've never really asked that of anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Top two favorite books of all time:
VALIS - Phillip K. Dick
The Illuminatus Trilogy - Robert Anton Wilson

Favorite Bands:
Broken Social Scene
Arcade Fire
Black Keys

I've been totally obsessed with Spotify recently and have been created this epic playlist with M83, Passion Pit, Grouplove, The Lumineers, Ellie Goulding etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
My bicycle

My family

My stories - be it book, film, tv or comic. How plain my life would have been without the endless worlds and characters I've visited.

My friends

My bag. Custom designed by ReLoad. It was the most expensive accessory I ever bought but it's been my constant companion on multiple continents since 2004. Maybe you'll see it racing past you when I'm pedaling down 15th or down Pike.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what to do this weekend. Also despairing over the dominance of money in our political system. That's why I try to focus on finding fun and cool things to do on the weekend. If it's all coming crashing down I might as well enjoy it before it does.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
eating, drinking or dancing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My middle name is Ben, after Old Ben Kenobi. My sister is Leia. Yes, I am a 2nd generation nerd.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you'd like to go out on a date that is NOT a dinner and a movie. Unless it's an awesome movie. Seriously, I prefer first dates where there's more an opportunity to talk but sometimes there's that movie you've just got to see.