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My self-summary
My goals in life often seem out of step from what might be expected. However, I believe it is important to live a life that is true to yourself. As difficult as that might sometimes be. I'm easy to please. I like new experiences and adventures. Try my best to be compassionate towards everyone.
What I’m doing with my life
Jiu-jitsu. I am completely obsessed with jiu-jitsu. I train about 4-5 days a week. I'm trying my best to budget my time in a way that I do more of what really matters to me. I'm enjoying the adventure, and looking forward to what lies ahead. Currently i've been learning brazilian portugese, riding my bike anywhere and everywhere, finding new music to love, meditating, reading, practicing jiu-jitsu, laughing, and ebaying records.

Gainfully employed as an assistant behavioral psychologist for a residential group home.
I’m really good at
being independent

staying calm

music trivia


making the best of any situation

seeing the good in everyone
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love it all, I have a really big appetite for music/film/literature; open to all recommendations.


Black Flag, Woody Guthrie, Bad Brains, Cro-Mags, Mavericks, Otis Redding, Elvis Presley, The Crystals, Johnny Cash, Shangri-La's, Supremes, Motorhead, Black Sabbath, Iron Maiden, Public Enemy, Queens of the Stone Age, Sharon Jones & the Dap Kings, Slayer, Neil Young, Social Distortion, Ramones, Modest Mouse, Weezer, Magnetic Fields, Frank Sinatra, Death Cab For Cutie, Jimmy Eat World, Kool Keith and Jonathan Richman.


The Pearl, Medea, Love in the Time of Cholera, Mans Search for Meaning, Don Quixote, Siddhartha, Galapagos, Man Without a Country, Too Fat to Fish, The Trial, Killing Yourself to Live, and Bartleby the Scrivener.


Bad Lieutenant, There's Something About Mary, Rebecca, Amores Perros, Harold and Maude, Taxi Driver, Kill Bill, Deathproof, Raging Bull, American Movie, Nightmare on Elm Street, Strangers on a Train, Punch Drunk Love, Kingpin, M, On the Waterfront, Cape Fear.
The six things I could never do without
I could do without everything. I just need my health.

Some things in life that mean very much to me are music and the ocean.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How mysterious and frightening the ocean is. Native Americans. Consumerism. How to be the best me. Time. Living in a different country.
You should message me if
First and foremost, you'd like to make a new friend, who could potentially be your boyfriend.

Also, if you'd like to practice speaking Portuguese with me, go on adventures together, visit museums, try a new sport/activity, eat, or see a concert.