Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name's Ste. The username is simply because, well, it's been my
main online username for almost a decade, so it feels weird using
I'm a polyamorous bisexual switch. I do have a serious longterm
girlfriend, but she has no problem with me dating other people (and
she has another boyfriend with the same name as me, for confusion
I'm not always consistent in all respects, but while I may
fluctuate from active to slow, I always appreciate the company of
interesting people, and the seeking of interesting facts and
I don't believe in lying to people I care about; especially when it
is phrased as being "for their own good". If I care about someone I
should never need to lie to make them feel good about themself, and
if I do I should know enough to realise that lying will only make
them feel worse later.
I don't like writing many paragraphs beginning with I.
I really can't think of another way to do this though.
Well, except for using the third person.
Kingreaper wants YOU to read this without laughing.
Maybe leaving it there would be for the best :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've dropped out of university recently, due to mental health
difficulties, and am seeking help with those.
I'm also working on a card game
based around swordfighting.
I need art for it, but the basics are working okay.
If the idea sounds interesting, check out more info:
Or message me :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Passing exams I shouldn't stand a chance at. Going to sleep at
; or after. Replacing sleep with
Not updating my profile for so long that half the things are no
Explaining things I don't understand until I've finished explaining
Being perfectly honest. Thinking too much
The first things people usually notice about me
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According to a poll of my gf and my mate's gf, my long hair
Also, I have a goofy smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favourite books: Anything Terry Pratchett, or Terry Brooks. I
haven't read any Terry Goodkind, but if the pattern holds I should
like them too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to relate to people. Whether I'm achieving my aims in life.
What my aims in life actually are. What I actually want from
relating to human beings.
I don't spend much time thinking about what to put in these
text-boxes. That may explain why they are woefully inadequate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing D&D 4e around my friends house. Some nice food, a few
drinks (sometimes even their own brews), good company and a fun
game. It's great.
If that's not happening, then I'll generally head out for pubbage,
and end up hitting a club later.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I stole blu-tac from my parents at around age 8, and never told
anyone until now.
More relevantly: While I have a sex drive, I don't actually enjoy
sex as much as play, and one of my favourite things is just
cuddling someone while naked/partially clothed, and feeling their
skin against mine.
You should message me if
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you think you and I could get on.
Indicators that that could be the case include: You have plans for
a zombie apocalypse. You enjoy learning new things. You've got geek
cred out the wazoo. Honesty is preferred to pleasantry. You'd never
laugh at the misfortune of others, except when it's funny :-)
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