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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:28pm
Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a mostly happy, mostly healthy Mainer. I identify as queer, and I think that exploring gender, sex and sexuality, and non-traditional relationships is a good time - alongside cooking and eating great food, growing things, spell-checking, enjoying cocktails with old and new friends, talking politics and social justice, and being outdoors. I'm also in a happy, healthy, non-monogamous long-term relationship, which we're cool with and I hope you are too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Juggling my time between a social justice job that also eats me alive (why, why?!) and pretending that someday I might just be a farmer/Zen master instead, when I am a better person than I am now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Finding my way around new cities. Running, even though I'm actually not very good at it (hey - I'm still out there! That's real optimism!). Program planning. Spreadsheets.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I largely like books, music, and food about food. I really like food.

Non-fiction on a variety of topics - politics, history, Budhhism, essays, etc.

Fiction that takes me out of myself.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good book/many good books.
Contacts (to see with)
A Le Creuset.
A good friend/many good friends.
Running shoes (and a sports bra - is that two things?).
Six is hard. Sustenance? Oxygen? Flannel sheets?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Growing, cooking, preserving, and eating food (I make pickles and jam! They take a long time and are expensive... and almost as good as things you can buy in the grocery store for far less time and dollars!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up on work (Why, why?!). Wishing I was sitting on a patio somewhere having a cold beer and great conversation. Occasionally sitting on a patio somewhere having a cold beer and great conversation, and being grateful.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...If you also thought that the 'casual sex' button wasn't quiiiiiite what you were after... how about a drink and some laughs first, eh?

...If you think non-monogamy is a real and possible thing.

...If you think it sounds fun to meet up, have a great conversation, and might consider hot sweaty sex if the chemistry is right.