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KinkyKalyss

33 / F / bisexual / Available

Brisbane, Australia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Other
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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I am poly, switch, and unconventional.

My Self-Summary

A bit short for time, so had to do the evil deed of copy-paste profile info. Will elaborate as I get to know this site's style a bit better. Seems more interesting than regular dating sites so far. Anyway, I might be preaching to the converted (or perverted, hopefully!), but here it goes...
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Polyamory: the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and free consent of everyone involved.

Bi: I have more experience with males, but LOOOOOOVE playing with girls.

Switch: I am mostly dominant, but enjoy submission with the right people. If you're new to kinky stuff, I'm glad to show you the ropes (pun very much intended).

For future reference: Most of my relationships have been open, now I seek to go the next level. I am still unsure what my ideal relationship is, but it certainly involves more than 2 people. I'm not in a hurry to build that relationship, so in the meantime I can share my knowledge about Poly and BDSM and have some fun of course!

I am Looking For
Not really "looking" yet. A bit busy with work for the next 6 months, so I can't give this the effort and commitment I think it deserves.

Ideal Partners: Open Minded, interested in polyamory (do some research to see if it suits you), kinky and into fetish, active creative mind, physically fit and healthy, inspired with own life/work/hobbies, psychologically & emotionally stable, financially stable, independent and with an open heart! Oh, and yes... Call me a superficial cliche, but I have a thing for tall guys (6'2 plus) and petite girls.
Now in Portuguese
Se voce nao fala ingles, e melhor nao me escrever.

What I’m doing with my life

Gotta leave something blank or we'll have nothing to talk about on the first date...

I’m really good at

*Fancy dress party design* Dungeon decor * Tease, Abduct and Corrupt(TM)* Pervertables Shopping * Sub Training * Positive Injections* DT's (so I'm told)* Traveling the World and claiming it on tax

The first things people usually notice about me

"Oh my god, you're so tall!"
"Thanks for stating the obvious..."

;-P

The fact 90% of my shoes have high (4inch plus) heels doesn't alleviate this scenario, so mea culpa.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Top 5's:

Pages: The Ethical Slut, The New Topping Book, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, The Fragrant Pharmacy, Ikea Catalogue

Popcorn: Watchmen, Matrix, I HEART Huckabees, Labyrinth, Moulin Rouge.

Tunes: Queen, Jamiroquai, Muse, Bent, Groove Armada.

Munchies: Seafood, tropical fruit, Thai or Brazilian spices, popcorn, rooibos tea.

The six things I could never do without

Food and water are bit obvious... I become way cranky when I'm hungry. (Physical nurturing; does this count as one or two?)

Friends; mates before dates all the way... Oh, I date my mates sometimes, so it's actually an easy decision. Who said you can't have your cake and etc... I thought cakes were made to be eaten.

My hands; in a worst case scenario, I'd handle being on a wheelchair, as long as I could still use my hands to reach out to the world, to touch, to love, to express myself, and hey, as long as I can still spank naughty friends, I'm happy.

Nature; I love the city, but need to reconnect to nature often. Can't live without it.

My sanity and consciousness; I've experienced friends lose their minds. It's like the person disappears. Too sad for words.

Memories and imagination; if all else fails, I have enough ammunition to reminisce and create new ideas to entertain myself.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

World domination. I'm not kidding.

On a typical Friday night I am

Setting up the costumes for the weekend events, if not at a "do" already.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have issues with privacy, shameless exhibitionist. I better not put what I'm thinking so as not to embarrass some readers.