Also, if you're interested, please message me - I don't generally send the first message with this profile.
I'm tall, handsome, sophisticated, funny, a little bit nerdy, and absurdly good on paper, for what self-serving statements on a faceless profile are worth. I'm also probably one of the only men on here who rounded his height down. I could be described as a sex-positive feminist. I do not have some other profile where I'm looking for a suburban life with 2.3 kids - I'm quite comfortable with my kinkiness and poly-ness; I'd just rather friends and coworkers not accidentally learn way more about me than they're comfortable with.
I'm into BDSM. I'm a switch. I used to list relative dominant/submissive percentages, but these days I identify as a true switch; whether I am dominant or submissive or both depends on the dynamic with the particular partner. I am interested in finding a dominant, switch, or submissive. I'm not looking for a one night stand, though I am open to a multiple-night stand. I am looking for one nightstand, as my bed needs a second one, but that really isn't relevant at all here. I'm also open to (indeed, desirous of) a serious relationship. Exclusivity just doesn't make a ton of sense to me. As you can probably guess, I am an alpha male and not submissive outside the bedroom, and I cannot submit to a top who lacks confidence. I have a fairly nuanced understanding of my own D/s tendencies, but will save that for a real conversation.
If you're interested, please send me a message or IM me - I don't really approach women with this profile. I'm sure y'all have enough unwanted attention to deal with as is. I prefer to date or play mostly with people who have a clear sense of what they want. But if you're new or just curious, feel encouraged to message me; I've helped a number of people navigate their way into kink successfully.