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57 Santa Barbara, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 53–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 19, 2013
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type

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What I’m doing with my life
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Friends call me beautiful, outgoing, happy, organized, look and behave waaaay younger than my physical age, excellent communicator, a joy to be around...and that makes me smile. I have been through a lot in my youth (haven't we all) but today I am very content with me, inside and out. I may look Chinese (which I am), but I'm much more Californian (like 4 generations); but I do love to cook healthy Chinese cuisine as well as other international foods. I own my own business; am spokesperson for a United Nations effort that has me traveling to amazing places, meeting extraordinary people, and my job is to get them all to work together. I enjoy people but I also love the intimacy of being at home with my partner prancing around or discovering some new place or adventure. I am seeking a together, financially-secure, emotionally available man who's ready to give and be given love in so many different ways, ready to discover new places, adventures, and make amazing memories together. I travel at lot in my work and seek a man who enjoys and has the capacity to travel too. I am a one-man woman and believe in instilling fun into my life; Humor and laughing are an everyday vitamin in my life, and so is appreciating the good in friends. Your voice says so very much about you, and I am blessed to have one that most find very appealing. I believe in the sensuality of touch, the excitement of anticipation, and the joy of appreciating one another. I am an accomplished author, motivational speaker, educator, advocate. I believe in giving back when you've been given so much. I realize it all starts with a conversation, so I am ready . . . are you?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating an environment for fun, motivating others toward a common objective, appreciating the differences between people, communication (after all, that's my profession), romantic reciprocation, being a woman (!!!), being spontaneous at play; being centered, and laughing, laughing, laughing . . . and so much more!!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, positive energy, great smile, warm heart, intelligence, a doer not a complainer . . . and more!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love nonfiction . . .Malcolm Gladstone stuff, and movies & books that capture the human spirit overcoming (we all win on that score!); all kinds of music (except rap); I have music playing throughout my home and office and that makes me smile; love to cook fresh and appreciate creative cuisines; especially enjoy good quality (not expensive though) red wine at sunset!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
--- To touch and be touched by my man
--- Love and verbal appreciation of our presence on earth
--- Family and friends
--- Laughter and that wise but bit quirky perspective of life that breeds such laughter
--- Freedom (have you ever been to China or Korea) and the power of choices in everyday life
--- Giving back to help others
--- Gratitude and the numerous ways I show it!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Appreciating who and where I am in life, and the gratitude that accompanies appreciation!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends . . . if I'm traveling for business, I enjoy trying new restaurants with friends and clients, going to a comedy club . . . or when I'm home, visioning cooking a great dinner with my man, feeding one another by the fireplace, with great jazz music playing, and appreciating the nuances of a great bottle of wine! I'm definitely not into TV at the start of a weekend, that's for sure!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You'll just have to use your imagination . . . and that just could be a subject of conversation between us only!!!!
You should message me if
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If any of what I have said appeals to you or prompts a smile!
Let your intuition open our doors!