What I’m doing with my life
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Friends call me beautiful, outgoing, happy, organized, look and
behave waaaay younger than my physical age, excellent communicator,
a joy to be around...and that makes me smile. I have been through a
lot in my youth (haven't we all) but today I am very content with
me, inside and out. I may look Chinese (which I am), but I'm much
more Californian (like 4 generations); but I do love to cook
healthy Chinese cuisine as well as other international foods. I own
my own business; am spokesperson for a United Nations effort that
has me traveling to amazing places, meeting extraordinary people,
and my job is to get them all to work together. I enjoy people but
I also love the intimacy of being at home with my partner prancing
around or discovering some new place or adventure. I am seeking a
together, financially-secure, emotionally available man who's ready
to give and be given love in so many different ways, ready to
discover new places, adventures, and make amazing memories
together. I travel at lot in my work and seek a man who enjoys and
has the capacity to travel too. I am a one-man woman and believe in
instilling fun into my life; Humor and laughing are an everyday
vitamin in my life, and so is appreciating the good in friends.
Your voice says so very much about you, and I am blessed to have
one that most find very appealing. I believe in the sensuality of
touch, the excitement of anticipation, and the joy of appreciating
one another. I am an accomplished author, motivational speaker,
educator, advocate. I believe in giving back when you've been given
so much. I realize it all starts with a conversation, so I am ready
. . . are you?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating an environment for fun, motivating others toward a common
objective, appreciating the differences between people,
communication (after all, that's my profession), romantic
reciprocation, being a woman (!!!), being spontaneous at play;
being centered, and laughing, laughing, laughing . . . and so much
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, positive energy, great smile, warm heart, intelligence, a
doer not a complainer . . . and more!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love nonfiction . . .Malcolm Gladstone stuff, and movies &
books that capture the human spirit overcoming (we all win on that
score!); all kinds of music (except rap); I have music playing
throughout my home and office and that makes me smile; love to cook
fresh and appreciate creative cuisines; especially enjoy good
quality (not expensive though) red wine at sunset!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
--- To touch and be touched by my man
--- Love and verbal appreciation of our presence on earth
--- Family and friends
--- Laughter and that wise but bit quirky perspective of life that
breeds such laughter
--- Freedom (have you ever been to China or Korea) and the power of
choices in everyday life
--- Giving back to help others
--- Gratitude and the numerous ways I show it!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Appreciating who and where I am in life, and the gratitude that
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends . . . if I'm traveling for business, I enjoy trying new
restaurants with friends and clients, going to a comedy club . . .
or when I'm home, visioning cooking a great dinner with my man,
feeding one another by the fireplace, with great jazz music
playing, and appreciating the nuances of a great bottle of wine!
I'm definitely not into TV at the start of a weekend, that's for
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll just have to use your imagination . . . and that just could
be a subject of conversation between us only!!!!
You should message me if
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If any of what I have said appeals to you or prompts a smile!
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