I'm really into ideas. I devour books, academic lit, and blog posts. I like to become engrossed in an ideology, only to have a complete paradigm shift come the next book. Go ahead, change my mind about something ^_^
I identify as queer, pansexual (although addmittedly more attracted to androgynous or fem gender expression than traditional masculinity), non-monogamous, and happily married to Lithmir.
Just because I'm married does not mean I'm a unicorn hunter! No! We date separately.
I'm nervous about my students or colleagues finding me on here as I know polyamory is still somewhat controversial. I'm not totally out of the closet about my non-monogamy yet just because I don't want to make people feel uncomfortable, but I'm happy to talk about it if you are curious.
Tell ya what, if you know me from work and you're kinda shocked to find me here let's just open up the conversation and talk about it. I'd rather that than rumors spread about me, so shoot me a message and I'll clear things up for you :)
If you're too shy to ask me this link may help: What is Ethical Non-Monogamy?